very good advise, Jana .. it might help you, Ranjilyn
you gave him your best, your love and attachment!! - if he doesnt appreciate it, if he is not able to give it back to you ... you wouldn't be able to be happy with him anyway... even if he was with you (it would be a sandcastle).
I've been through the same feelings for almost 9 months. Finally I've got a job and the situation slightly changed - but in my case because of various reasons it's not the turn by 180 degrees which I whole heartedly hoped for.
I know these feelings very well.. Rarely some positive thoughts come to rescue.. keep on reading and as trivial as it might sound - start doing some sports - at least for 15 minutes a day. It really can make you more energetic and help you feel better in the end. and maybe start doing something creative :) write down some stupid rhymes pouring down your frustrations in the shape of some completely crazy story.
well, hope you will find a job and a circle of good friends soon! crossing my fingers!
Isn't it a bit about your society and almost non existing dating possibility in India? Maybe the way of arranged meetings with potential candidates does not suits you -> maybe you need to date for more time, feel natural and easy with her to show how you are inside and have some possibility to get to make her know the real you.. Don't worry :) Be yourself and take it easy! Wishing you all the best
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only time can heal it..plunge yourself into activities and it's going to be a it easier ....
I've been there many times... specialist now..