i need help!
I dont want to revenge because i know nothing will happen if i will do that. I want to see him and express how i felt and how hurt of being abandoned.I need your advice here in CS .till now i cant sleep and i always remember him. I felt like crazy thinking of him.I don't know where he is if he in India , UAE or Qatar.. How will i find him. I have the copy of his passport and ID . Do u think it will help.
Kind help...
Ranjilyn
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Accept that it's part of your process of feeling better and remember that you actually have the people who really love and care for you near you.
Focus on how to make yourself better and get yourself together.
Let by gones be by gones. You may or may never find out his reasons for leaving without explanation but for the time being, only you who could decide whether you're ready or not to let it all go.
Do call your closest friends and talk about how you're feeling
No, it won't make you feel any better to plot a revenge.
It might sound cliche but the best revenge you can do is actually to feel happy for him.
This means you have been abandoned. Time for a reality check dear. The facts are clear,he doesn't care.
Accept the truth,don't be hanging on to a dream that has become a nightmare. Do not waste any time or energy or tears on this. The story is over,close the book,move on.
i hope all goes well for u.
Listen to Shay. She is a sister giving you some great advice! Don't beat yourself up over something that was not your fault!
Ranjilyn, you must to understand, he would had never ever marry you.I do not believe the guy did not love you or wasn't attach to you.
Indians obey their parents and they have no voice in a family.
Please look after yourself instead and let time to heal you, cry if you want to cry, curse if you want to curse and move on.
One day life will look brighter, what does not kill only makes us stronger
I am so happy all you girls are rallying behind this beautiful woman. For all you girls!
I just wondering how did that to me after all those years. I trust him a lot and submit everything with him.
Anyway i really appreciate all your good advice here..I do hope i recover soon and move on to a new life..God bless us all.
Thank you all for the time you spent sharing and reading my blog.
Good luck
She is desperate for this man.
She better get over it though, i think its a cultural thing more than any, and the bstrd did not start the breaking process in time including openness, but just disappeared.
Unresponsible behaveour.
Keep the copy of ID and passport out of your sight and out of your reach. Call your friends to stay with you for some time or keep seeing a friend or family member regularly that you enjoy to talk to.
Crying it out loud before you sleep until you feel tired and fall asleep. Hopefully someday you reach a point where you're getting bored of crying and starting to think to get on your feet again. Take control of your life to move on
you gave him your best, your love and attachment!! - if he doesnt appreciate it, if he is not able to give it back to you ... you wouldn't be able to be happy with him anyway... even if he was with you (it would be a sandcastle).
so take your time, express your pain
and start building some real palace soon
Here I can say that I was at the other side in my youth... My first bf was unacceptable for my family because he was from Afghanistan. I didn't want to marry him but even having a relationship with him was accepted badly in those years. Although he was a very handsome, polite, kind, and educated young man. Then I loved him but later I realized that the cultural background would be a serious obstacle (although he was an atheist not a Muslim).
So as we say here, bad things usually happen for a good reason (but we can't realize it at the moment).
I'm happy for him and his future wife who will cook him delicious curry
wish you the same Ranjilyn
In the 4 years ye were together you did'nt meet anyone in his family
No phone numbers nothing like that
I think after the first year you should have at least spoke are wrote to his mother no??The best thing you can do is grive and cry your heart out till u get over him.... And learn from it any man be proud to have a woman like you by his side...He was moron that wasted your time thats what really hurts
I will follow all your good adivice and it will be a big help for me to forget him and move on to the next chapter of my life..
I will pray that it wont happen to all you my experience to this men.
Yes Life is too short....
yaaa, not a bigg loss anyway
God is with me and i know he will never leave me in this kind of agony and grieving.
They confronted me in the day of my disaster, but the Lord was my support...