Personally. I think it is because you say too much on your profile. And it can come off as demanding. I am not saying that is the case, but you do have a long list. Men associate long lists that sound demanding with red flags. And I did look at your profile. And when I see a profile like that, I don't bother sending anhything.
You worry too much and pick it apart mentally. Sit back and enjoy the ride. (the ride of life). If you keep picking everything apart and worrying, you'll chase everyone away, including your soulmate.
Until you meet the right man it's going to get monotonous sometimes, boring, agrivating, lonely as well as silly, fun, adventurous even maybe a little wierd. That's life.
Just keep an open mind and heart, eccept that it may take a while and you may go through many boyfriends, and I don't mean that in a rude way, before you find him. But if it's any help, we are all stuck at least for a little while in that rut.
I could try to be optamistic or pessimistic, like so many comments on cs can be. But I'll be honest. You won't know until you open the door in the middle of that wall.
I'm sorry but relationships are a risk. But I will say, to take risks is better than being a prisoner behind the wall.
I'm here, because I am alone and wish to find someone. But that doesn't mean I will find some one here. I may find her here, in a bar, in a church, at an event, who knows. But if i'm going to look I might as well broaden my horizons so to say.
When I first got divorced me and my ex wife sold the house. She had a friend at the bank and ended up with almost all the money. She spent the money on 3 cars instead of paying the bills, all of witch were in my name. She got a car and so did her 2 sons. Not my children. I was furious but decided to leave them alone and just pay the bills. But within 6 months all 3 cars were totalled and no good. I did nothing to get even. I let my anger go and soon the 3 of them lost their cars.
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Personally. I think it is because you say too much on your profile. And it can come off as demanding. I am not saying that is the case, but you do have a long list. Men associate long lists that sound demanding with red flags.And I did look at your profile. And when I see a profile like that, I don't bother sending anhything.