Bronze, Never really thought of it that way... Don't know.. to me it's just common courtesy.. like if I'm walking by someone and they ask me how I'm doing.. it's common courtesy to say Fine thank you.. I wouldn't just ignore them.. Kinda feel the same way here. JMHO Amanda
very true.. it doesn't take but a minute to type Thanks but no Thanks.. but keep in mind too, some people may be busy not get to check their mail very often etc... I know I have been without internet most of the last 2 weeks UGH.. But if they don't have the decency to reply, well it's not the type of person you want to be around anyway
Buckeye, So sorry to hear that you lost your fiance. I know it must have been rough on you. Too many people take EVERYTHING for granted. Most people have affairs because they feel like they are missing something at home.. Instead of trying to work on it and put some effort into their current relationship or calling it off, they take the easy way out and have an affair. I'll never understand it, but what does that matter lol. Alot of people take everything for granted.. Life is too short.. We need to appreciate what we have everyday!! Live life Laugh often Love Much Take care sweety, Amanda
Thank you sweetness... hehe.. you have to post a pic when you get dressed up ;) lol had to try right? Can't wait to get back to it.. made some awesome friends along the way too :)
T - baby girl.. I knew I liked you for a reason love this.. you are sooo right.. I thank GOD that I have a few true friends.. they are far and few between. Take care beautiful lady, Amanda
lol.. being sappy is a GOOD thing.. and haven't you heard Patience is a virtue.. I'm not virtueous (is that how you spell it lol) if that is the case I knew that it wouldn't keep you down for long.. Once you realize that you deserve soo much more, it makes it easier to say goodbye and let go... Now I must go Re-Write my letter.. although the first one was TRULY insightful, and funny, and everything else good like that lol Take care sweety, Amanda
Homing - Thank you hon! I THANK GOD that He made me like this, cuz boy if I had to work at it lol who knows?? Not saying there aren't times that I dont' have to remind myself.. but it's all good.. so much happier this way
Sweet, Thank the Lord your son is okay.. Football is sooo scary when your kids are playing it.. My son played in 7th grade, scared me to death.. just knew he was gonna break something... Well.. one day I get a call.. he hurt his arm.. he broke his arm.. But ya know what.. He's too much like me.. He didn't break it playing football, broked it just goofing around at lunch lol.. I can laugh about it now. but OMG it was sooo scary. I will pray that your son has a speedy recovery.. Tell him to make sure and follow drs orders, bc if not he can damage it permanantly.. Ya'll are in my prayers my sweet woman
LILY - I will be praying for you and your daughter as well. There is NOTHING woese than watching your child suffer and there is not a darn thing you can do about it... A speedy recovery to your precious little one as well baby girl.
I can understand your point of view.. I guess I'm lucky because I don't ever really have a need to "get it out" This blog is about the worst that I get.. i've never really had a temper over the trivial things, and yes stress at work, on the road, whatever is trivial.. NOW.. if you hurt my kids or hurt any kid in general.. well that's when I lose it.. I'm on a WAR path then lol Have a GREAT one hon. Take care, Amanda
vIRGO, I understand that.. We all get in a hurry.. but why get mad when there is an obstacle in the way.. Waiting on a train.. take time to call a friend that you haven't called in a while, write your grocery list, why sit there and cuzz and throw a fit over something you have no control over is my question? have a good one
Yobaza, Thank you hon!! I would never let anyone steal my smile lol That is what makes me ME I'm always happy, and I prefer it that way.. I don't see a reason to get upset.. and If I'm around those people that just REFUSE to be happy or even crack a smile, I'll go the other way.. I wont let anyone bring me down. Thanks again babe.. I appreciate it.. Have an AWESOME day!! Take care my sweet, Amanda
Okay.. just gotta say.. I feel the same way!! Rock on babe!! Keep touching the lives of those around you.. cuZ if you can bring a smile to one person's face, you know that you have improved their day just a little bit and that is what makes life worth living Take care sweetheart, Amanda
Girl, I'm the same way.. If you get any answers on WHY they are attracted to us.. knowing who we are, that we have male friends instead of female friends.. and THEN want to CHANGE EVERYTHING about us that MAKES us who we are when we get in a relationship.. Didnt you fall for me bc of who I was then you try to change everything that make ME ME...UGH UGH UGH NE way if you get any answers PLEASE let me know!! Best of luck ma!
I'm so sorry for your loss babe.. and YES it is a loss.. You put your love and trust in someone then POOF they are gone! I've been there.. too many times it seems. Give yourself time to grieve that loss, just like you would if a loved one dies. Try to take the situation and make it a learning experience. I too am optimistic.. always find the positive in a situation.. after a break-up its hard.. you do lose yourself, but I promise you, you will get back to normal.. It just takes time and contemplation. My opinion... anyone that can break up with you through a TEXT, is not only a coward, but they are NOT worth your time. It's hard to heal from a break-up when you feel like there is no closure. You spend time dwelling on what you did wrong, what you could have done differently, etc... but one thing you have to remember.. it's NOT your fault.. She obviously had problems if she could turn her emotions on and off like that and did not have the HUMAN DECENCY to at least speak with you on the phone at the very least! Honey, I don't know anything but what you posted, but obviously she does not deserve your love.. So dont dwell on it too much. You will find someone that not only deserves your love, but will love you back the way that you deserve. Don't give up on Love babe.. I believe God has someone out there for each of us. I believe everything happens for a reason.. and we go through the bad and tough experiences so that we can recognize and appreciate TRUE love, and the real thing when we find it. Hope this helps you some sweetheart. Keep your head up, don't let this experience change your positive attitude, bc in the end it will be your loss.. ya know.. Don't let anyone ever make you miserable babe. Take care of yourself. Amanda
RE: It is impolite to not reply to a decent mail or fl
Bronze,Never really thought of it that way... Don't know.. to me it's just common courtesy.. like if I'm walking by someone and they ask me how I'm doing.. it's common courtesy to say Fine thank you.. I wouldn't just ignore them.. Kinda feel the same way here. JMHO
Amanda