Am I CRAZY??
Why is it that some people get completely irritated at such trivial things??? They get mad at waiting on a train, waiting in line, the way someone looks at them... Why is it easier for someone to get mad and take it out on others rather than shrug it off and go on with life?? I have NEVER understood that.For me, I would rather take life as it comes. I believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason..Maybe that is why my opinion and outlook on life varies from most. Why get mad, raise your blood pressure, and basically feel bad because of something that you have no control over??? I would much rather find the positive n the situation, laugh it off and get on with life. I would much rather be happy and have a smile on my face NO matter what the situation.
I'm not saying that I dont' have my moments of getting upset, feeling down, and just thinking the world sux.. we all have those moments.. but I don't get stuck on it.. Usually my first reaction in most situations is to laugh.. Like I said, I find the positive.. I think things are humourous..
Am I crazy for feeling like this??
HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY!! THANKS FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ MY BLOG!! BE BLESSED AND ROCK ON
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I came form the country when I grew up, I was happy and still mostly happy even tho live is very chellenging at the moment, I saw people drive in there cars, walk down the street, it struck me they all looked sad or angrey, stuck in a place they not want to be in. I got a part time job at the time in a petrol staion at the time, the angry people try to steal my happiness, and make me like them, I just smile even more, this makes them even more angry, which is even more funny to see haha.
don't let them take your happiness, keep your happy sheild up around you, if we are crazy to be happy then I like our world
no, you are not!
Have a lovely time!
Hi endo, you are not crazy. Keep up your smile. I love smiling too and it is the best form of medication...
Thank you hon!! I would never let anyone steal my smile
I'm always happy, and I prefer it that way.. I don't see a reason to get upset.. and If I'm around those people that just REFUSE to be happy or even crack a smile, I'll go the other way.. I wont let anyone bring me down.
Thanks again babe.. I appreciate it.. Have an AWESOME day!!
Take care my sweet,
Amanda
heh I LOVE thse things lol
I understand that.. We all get in a hurry.. but why get mad when there is an obstacle in the way.. Waiting on a train.. take time to call a friend that you haven't called in a while, write your grocery list, why sit there and cuzz and throw a fit over something you have no control over is my question?
have a good one
NOW.. if you hurt my kids or hurt any kid in general.. well that's when I lose it.. I'm on a WAR path then lol
Have a GREAT one hon.
Take care,
Amanda
Found this. My favourite is the polar bear. I thought it would make you smile.
People that get mad at everything... well, they are selfish of course. They are also putting on a performance... making sure everyone knows about their disapproval... there's a psychological thing to this... it's part of training people to seek your approval (because they know you'll react harshly when you don't approve). It's also part of getting what you want. If being a brat worked when they were a child, perhaps they'll continue the behavior as an adult.
It's a game... it's annoying... but it's a game people play and can get others to play... so the game continues.
Generally I just leave these folks alone... leave the room if I can... it's not worth the trouble of disagreeing with them. Sometimes my mood gets in the way... and I'm too annoyed... you can't win a confrontation as they'll just escalate their behavior... but you can point out that the size of their reaction seems disproportionate to the problem and to anyone's ability to do anything about it.
Something polite and direct. More of an observation than any kind of challenge. They tend to tone it down...
(doesn't make them any more fun to be around though