The real deal happens in the most unexpected manner most times......so it is not a matter of giving but rather about giving yourself a break to let it happen.
Point of the matter is that whether you post a picture or not it should be a current one. If we are all serious about meeting someone here then we should share images of our recent selves. That's the first step to email communication that can eventually lead to video chatting and hopefully a meeting - so best to show the real and current you at the first instance.
Dating someone from work is not advisable..........there is always the potential that it might not work out and then it becomes uncomfortable at your work place.
Beautiful pictures Abigail!! Do you mind my asking where in Ireland you will be? I will be in Dublin mid-next month........hey maybe we can meet; have coffee.
I was married to someone who was the same age as I so I have no comparison about dating someone that is younger or older than I. I am, however, very much attracted to someone that is 8 years younger than I and for me that feels like a huge gap.
At all times be true to yourself because even if your lies are believed in the beginning eventually they catch up on you. Maybe the superficial women don't mind the lairs but real women will always, always value an honest man!!
RE: no more,has to be.
Am a bit a far away too...............but sending you a nice, warm and sunny Hello!!