Blocked on Fb by your boyfriend? Something very wrong there, for starters. Lying about not talking to his ex...2nd warning sign. His reaction to you looking at his page? 3rd and for me it would be the final warning sign.
Having said that, you're on a dating site, with an active profile...or have you only signed up since the break up?
That's the beauty of relationships, Eleg, each one is unique. Thinking about it now, I prefer not to categorise outside of close friends, rather enjoy the relationship for what it is
Kanda, there are hundreds of South African accents, it also depends very much on which area you live, what your mother tongue is and, as Eleg said, where you were educated
I don't quite get the "spiritual but not religious" thing either. Maybe the difference is the spiritual don't attend church? For me, I'm not a believer. The stories propagated by religious institutions simply make no logical sense to me and frankly, the atrocities and hypocrisy in the name of religion enrage me.
RE: Confused in California
Not in Ireland, Red