Dont worry about the rating as many people do not rate you what they think you deserve. Many as you said give lower rating just to bring the average down and I have even had men who contacted me asking for friendship and when declined pursposely rated 1. If they thought I rated 1 why did they contact me in the first place. Anyway whats most inportant is that you know what you rate. You are a good looking man and as long as you are confidant of that, its all that matters. Dont let the ratings bother you.
Ive always believed that in a relationship there has to be a give and take attitude. Whats most important is communication, understanding and tolerance. I think both men and women have their parts to play for a successful relationship. All my life I have been in relationships where I had been giving and giving, never got anything in return, only lies and made use of. Thus now, yes I do have a certain criteria in a man I would consider but I know I am willing to give much more as long as he is willing to give a little.
I think the idea of being in a relationship is being with that person through good times and bad times.
Well these days men are not real men anymore. During the old days men were real men who provided for their families and the woman would take care of the home. I guess that is why marriages those days lasted as both husband and wife had their respective place and duties to ensure a succesful marriage and family life.
These days men want a woman who can earn and bring home the money and on top of that to come home and take care of duties at home. Many men these days do not have much pride in being able to provide for their families, instead they want an easy life thus a woman who earn and comes home and cooks. That is why I suppose you will find lots of matrimonial ads these days where the man may be a doctor or lawyer and he would be looking for the same. However most of such marriages do not work and end in divorce as many women these days earn more than men and hold higher positions than their spouse which to most men is not acceptable due to his ego, and yet he wants to enjoy the fruits of her labour and the money she brings home. Its rediculous for a man to want to marry a doctor and expect her to come home and be a housewife as well. A woman who holds a high position is bound to put her job first and it is only rightly so.
Although i feel the same way about you, wanting a man who I can take care of and cook for, I have realised that most men these days are more materialistic and do not possess the pride and integrity of men those days of being able to provide and take care of their families.
Ive given up on finding the right men. All the men I meet seem to only want freebies, they want all the benefits of a relationship but they dont want a relationship. They only want to take and give nothing in return. In all the relationships Ive had all I seem to be doing is all the giving and never got anything in return. Thus I have now decided that no more freebies, if a man has got nothing to offer me, then I have nothing to offer him. Now I will not waste time with men looking for one night stands and free fun. I realised that when a man gets something easily without having to give anything in return, he does not appreciate it.
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RE: Photo ratings
Dont worry about the rating as many people do not rate you what they think you deserve. Many as you said give lower rating just to bring the average down and I have even had men who contacted me asking for friendship and when declined pursposely rated 1. If they thought I rated 1 why did they contact me in the first place. Anyway whats most inportant is that you know what you rate. You are a good looking man and as long as you are confidant of that, its all that matters. Dont let the ratings bother you.