I came on this site with the same intention: i.e. to find love of my life, ROMEO, Mr. Right, Mr. PErfect whatever... but ended up in realization that CS is not the right place to look for it
One can find good company over here though, if not companionship.
Because, the target that we set for companionship are far too high. MAny a times, we are not ready to let them go. and CS is very unreliable in many ways...
Yet a good critical comment, a food of thought, a keen remark lit my mind up !!! and I am content at this intellectual company only now !!! Good luck !!!
RE: how would i say
Do not hesitate! Bring the topic up! See the reaction! face the realities!