A lesson I learned not so long ago, and it was more painful than my marriage break up. I was on the receiving end of what you did, and that is not a criticism of you, and there have been many women who have been where I was left too, so it works both ways and, I don't think anyone knows why we do it.
There are many very good comments here, so let us hope that they helps you. Sometimes peoples paths cross, they cross for a reason, sometimes the results are wonderful, sometimes they are hurtful and hurt like hell.
You may call it fate, God's will or just a coincidence. The complexity of human emotions and why we do things are sometimes unexplained, but when you are really honest within your self, the experience of crossing paths with someone, if you look hard enough and objectively, you will find the answer within yourself and what that experience has taught you.
When the hurt, disappointment, anger and frustration has subsided within you, you then can begin to search for the answer. Except what you have done, move on, don't beat yourself up as scolding yourself only prolongs the anguish. Life's lessons are the best teacher, learn from them and grow, you'll know the answers when you find them.
It's about the young lady, she is hurting, lonely, disillusioned and probably scared as well as being torn between looking after her children and her own natural will to find love, a thing we all seek, a very illusive dream we all want.
We have all been there at some time, and if you haven't, you have not loved and lost, I would consider anyone that hasn't has a lot to learn, and has been fortunate.
nakakushin: Hang in there young lady, the world can be a very lonely place at times, don't rush in, gather your thoughts and make, your decisions when you are thinking clearly. All the best to you.
Money, cannot by love, if you really love someone, you would live in a tent with them, then strive for something better, not all men are what you say, I have been alone for 25 years and have never imposed this on a woman, ever. The same can be said about some men, they too have the same outlook toward women as you do toward men.
Polio is a shocking disease and it's damage is permanent, Educating people about this disease is the key not a forceful hand, being forceful only causes rebellion, seeing is believing.
First of all, you have sound judgement and you made a wise choice to tell the member that you weren't interested, that's a plus. Secondly it is not you that has been rejected, it is he that needs to deal with his own rudeness and personality disorder.
You feel rejected, but that will pass, dealing with rejection is a fear we all have, and no matter as to our age, we must move on and learn by it, think of it perhaps as a teacher, a lesson learned.
Good luck with your quest to find that special someone.
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RE: so mad at my self
Hi lonelydaisy,A lesson I learned not so long ago, and it was more painful than my marriage break up. I was on the receiving end of what you did, and that is not a criticism of you, and there have been many women who have been where I was left too, so it works both ways and, I don't think anyone knows why we do it.
There are many very good comments here, so let us hope that they helps you. Sometimes peoples paths cross, they cross for a reason, sometimes the results are wonderful, sometimes they are hurtful and hurt like hell.
You may call it fate, God's will or just a coincidence. The complexity of human emotions and why we do things are sometimes unexplained, but when you are really honest within your self, the experience of crossing paths with someone, if you look hard enough and objectively, you will find the answer within yourself and what that experience has taught you.
When the hurt, disappointment, anger and frustration has subsided within you, you then can begin to search for the answer. Except what you have done, move on, don't beat yourself up as scolding yourself only prolongs the anguish. Life's lessons are the best teacher, learn from them and grow, you'll know the answers when you find them.