Rejection....We've all been there...

It makes a difference what happens in a dating site or in real life...

Indem man sie verhaut (die Ablehnung)!

wait a minute.. you mean you rejected someone??? lol
was he blind or what?
and whats the point of your blog... something like (hey I am untouchable so hard to get I am rejecting guys yeahhhh I am soooo wanted !!!
you better stop flying cuzz your wings are allmost 80% damaged allready ;) good luck!
(by the way now you can feell the negative energy of a rude compliment)

That person was me she is complaining about after simply writing a note of interest and knowing Calliope is a good writer of poetry and pretty much I would guess a nice person.

However, her response to me is as follows


tHANK YOU For the flower....however, I am not interested in pursuing a relationship with you, I pray you find all that you are searching for.

my response point noted:

Thanks for the cold shoulder I was not asking for a relationship
Many here do not want one so I don't expect you to be any different.
Hope you find what you seek within your cult and horses.

Since then she blocked me and now wants to complain I am rude to her and or the masses?
I have been rejected by many here I expect many more the longer I fool with this site. Yet I consider it a unique place to learn from many people including Calliope. Many tend to quickly place barriers and walls and want to throw their anger out there to those just wanting to reach out.
Many want to consider this as a dating site. I consider it just a sound off and blog site. Many in my opinion seem to complain why they can't find healthy relationships or why they can't find a friend and are so quick to throw stones at each other.
Many place unrealistic criteria as to what they seek to the point they actually end up pushing out everyone and assume any new potential relationship will be like their last failure.
It seems contradictory to do such stuff knowing the reason why we are here is to connect with people intellectually emotionally spiritually etc. etc.
So before people start throwing stones at me or anyone else here for similar complaints first take in consideration your part in the picture.

hey a no reply should be an indication that you are not interested!and when you do say i am not interested sometimes they react vile

Hey Calli, true that some people just can't handle the rejection. I sometimes couldn't too, but once again, this is an online world, everything could happened and all we could do is to deal with it. There's a saying that a smooth sea never made a skillful sailor. Life goes on and I move on.

Maybe the only hope one could ever ask is the stone that was rejected by the builders shall be the cornerstone to a different designer

We all get rejected sometimes, both here and in real life too. So what? It is part of life. We re-start the car and drive on. What one of us finds to be an unrealistic expectation, the next person in line may fit to a T. No expectation is unrealistic just because some of us don't meet it. Someone else will. All power to them.

cold shoulder, cult and horses that sounds to me like some one taking rejection badly.

I don't enjoy rejecting women , but you know when you don't match. But I usually just make that clear at the start , don't mind continueing with chat though.

First of all, you have sound judgement and you made a wise choice to tell the member that you weren't interested, that's a plus.
Secondly it is not you that has been rejected, it is he that needs to deal with his own rudeness and personality disorder.

You feel rejected, but that will pass, dealing with rejection is a fear we all have, and no matter as to our age, we must move on and learn by it, think of it perhaps as a teacher, a lesson learned.

Good luck with your quest to find that special someone.