Hi, what lovely letters to you from people who feel your loss. My mum died of ovarian cancer 26 years ago. I was devastated and it probably took me about 15 years to really get over it. Grief is a process that we all have to move through the different stages. Some manage to do it quicker and do it very slow or never manage to move from deep loss and despair to sadness and acceptance. My mum was the glue in our family and we have only had a couple of full family xmas's together since her death which is a shame. You will always have your mum in your heart with you and she will always talk to you, you just need to ask her what she thinks and you will hear her words when you need her strength. I hope you have lots of good support, use them and talk to a friend who has lost a mum or dad as i really dont think people do understand fully what it is like to lose a parent unless you have gone through it. Blessings and hugs to you.
I think you should not generalise, whilst that may be your experience, it is not too true to assume that all women are dishonest. Whilst i understand that you would be hurt as you have felt betrayed, why would you expect a lady to do all the work in travelling etc. Maybe both of you should have met somewhere on neutral ground or half way. I am sure there would have been some signals or warning bells in the conversations that this was not right along the way? Were your intentions entirely honourable in the whole event, maybe you thought you had died and gone to heaven that a women was travelling all this way to see you and you did not have to put much effort into it and were annoyed when it did not happen that way?. Or maybe she thought not and pulled out and did not want to hurt your feelings, just took the easy way out instead. Either way, you will probably never really know. Big hug to you and know there are plenty more women out there that have integrity and honesty. Good luck.
Yep it has been here in New Zealand now for a good few years and we are really starting to see it hit home in our families with the children suffering the most from broken families, not enough food, clothes etc.
NZ government knew it was coming, why did they not learn from USA and other countries and impose huge criminal sentances as deterrants. Instead our mental health services are now crippling under the increasing admissions of patients who's effects are irreversible. They are putting it into all sorts of recreational drugs to hook the teenagers as well. The trouble is that intelligent people who should know better are trying it and getting hooked and it is having a devastating consequence on their families as well as their physical and mental impairment for the rest of their life.
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RE: Mom is gone........
Hi, what lovely letters to you from people who feel your loss. My mum died of ovarian cancer 26 years ago. I was devastated and it probably took me about 15 years to really get over it. Grief is a process that we all have to move through the different stages. Some manage to do it quicker and do it very slow or never manage to move from deep loss and despair to sadness and acceptance. My mum was the glue in our family and we have only had a couple of full family xmas's together since her death which is a shame. You will always have your mum in your heart with you and she will always talk to you, you just need to ask her what she thinks and you will hear her words when you need her strength. I hope you have lots of good support, use them and talk to a friend who has lost a mum or dad as i really dont think people do understand fully what it is like to lose a parent unless you have gone through it. Blessings and hugs to you.