Mom is gone........

I am sorry for your loss. The empty feeling doesn't really go away, gradually you notice it less and the pain becomes a dull ache instead of a raw wound. Just remember that it takes time to grieve and it is a natural process. How lovely that you told her she was wonderful.
Blessings to you.

I know what you went through ....i lost my mom 10 years ago.. i lost her to cancer and lost my dad to heart problems...and my second sister a year ago...so i know what you are going through and the pain will be lesss and less as time goes by it will get easier too....

HI to you........
I totally understand what you are going thru. I lost my mom January 2005 and to this day, I still ache for her, cry for her and miss her deeply. Just as yourself, I want to celebrate her life and thinking now, I do....I celebrate MY life that she has given me!
the pain does NOT go away......a song, a certain scent, even something as lame as a tv show will spin off memories of your mom.
I am still adjusting to living my life without her PHYSICALLY but always have her living within YOUR HEART and you will see that she IS around......
she is the wind that blows thru your hair, she is the sunny day that you prayed for, she is the laughter amungst you and your siblings, she can possibly be every beautiful moment that you may have in your life from this day forth......you just have to believe in it!
I will tell you something.....it does NOT get easier....it just becomes a way of living without her PHYSICAL PRESENCE.......
I got good days and sometimes I don't........yesterday was a horrible day for me........today is much better.........
I wish you much courage, strength and knowledge that she is watching over you.......every time you see a penny or a coin on the floor, pick it up and say HI to your mom......I consider them pennies from heaven and it's my mom's way of saying "I'm here.....".......I am sure it will be the same for you
surround yourself amongst great family and friends and talk of her and reminisce......that helps the healing.......
my condolences..........
Peace.......
rose

Yeah, I miss my mom too. Has been a couple of years now.

I talk to her like she is here near me.

(Some very wonderful things said here)

Hi, what lovely letters to you from people who feel your loss. My mum died of ovarian cancer 26 years ago. I was devastated and it probably took me about 15 years to really get over it. Grief is a process that we all have to move through the different stages. Some manage to do it quicker and do it very slow or never manage to move from deep loss and despair to sadness and acceptance. My mum was the glue in our family and we have only had a couple of full family xmas's together since her death which is a shame. You will always have your mum in your heart with you and she will always talk to you, you just need to ask her what she thinks and you will hear her words when you need her strength. I hope you have lots of good support, use them and talk to a friend who has lost a mum or dad as i really dont think people do understand fully what it is like to lose a parent unless you have gone through it. Blessings and hugs to you.