Pro.. Somehow I always thought it was a guy thing to verify via skype that there isn't actually another guy at the other end pretending to be a woman..
LOTR.. I'm sure you're a quick learner and will figure out the "modus operandi" here.. Daniela's observation is pretty valid.. as a first step you probably need to make adjustments to your profile.
Check out the profiles of some of the more "seasoned" ladies here.. you'll get the gist..
and as far as the retirement goes I'm actually much happier just being retired in my early forties.. the current projects are more like hobbies if you will.. something to kill time..
RE: Why must you go there!!!
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