aniekerk Blog Comments (19)

RE: silent......

Nighty my thoughts goes out to all the people in Nepal we are a nation in mourning the lives Lost off families

totally frustrated

Hey thankx so much ekself ur comment really lifted my spirit its a hard job finding mr right lol

RE: It Happened...It Happened

Neither did I so that makes two lunny fruit cakes

Put me on a bill board

Halo Catfoot I always set my expectations high , and as far as finding. Brown I cross that bridge when I get to it so my knight is still in shining armour

RE: LOOKING FOR A REAL MAN.....

Calliopesgirl you keep up the spirit girl that Mimi her name suites her best, choice she ever made still hiding behind her veil or whatever

RE: It Happened...It Happened

What really happened? if nothing happened.

Put me on a bill board

Mimi1973 if you so goog at full stops,pronunciations,comma's and the works,why don't I see you writing a blog. You forever giving bad commenmts and just dissing people left right and centre back.Why what's the matter I don't see you writing anything in full sentence that's if you can, I see you lots of time shunting people you've got no opinion on anything.If insecurity becomes you then leave other people to their opinions go for an English grammma lesson think you need one and in future if you want to give ur comments please keep your e-mail open so that a debatable conversation can go versa-vias thanks

RE: Tired of being lonely and tired

Hi Adam I feel the same way basically,but you have stumbled,fall and not want to get up but you will.You will make mistakes feel like you didn't do it perfectly or did something wrong let yourself be human.You will be impatient you will want to speed up this whole change give yourself more time to get the change you want.you feel like giving up its too hard, why bother,your previous life wasn't all that bad maybe,but then again the inner voice that told you to make this change will never go away and its not pleasant having to avoid it.You feel alone like you are the only person going through this much change and finding it so hard.Yes we all wonder if other people just it easier than us they don't,All changes take discipline and endurance.Other people may discourae you pull you away from your goal and question why you doing this remember this is between you and you and no one else. You may not see or feel theirs much progress don't worry change in everything in the start happens on an invisible level you at that crossroad ow acknowledge yourself for what you are for what you know you've done already and don't beat yourself up train yourself to focus and look for the good that is on the other side of a change my words too you today is Accepting a change is half the battle.When you resist the change, it comes with a bunch of suffering Stop arguing with reality go with the flow of where life is now obviously taking you so take control of what you can, your negativity your questions you keep asking yourself and the stories you tell yourself and others about your current situation.You can't control destiny you can only control what's inside your mind keep well Adam well wishes Anne

Y do men lie

Just never thought dating meeting someone could be this hard its like looking for a needle in the haystack and what a haystack this is its tiering me out

Y do men lie

Simmom for someones who rarely go out socailise and are new and to a site but was told by many friends how easily they found their man onlIne dampens spirits of hope if you mis informed innocent to all of tHis you lOose trust

Y do men lie

This is not a movie its real people with real feelings we talking about

Y do men lie

Yes true everybody lies onsite and off site but a dating friendship site is daily being exploited we lay our cards blatenly open on the tables not to be dashed but trully just to find that one person we so wish to see each and everyone of us. I'm still hopefull that will never be taken away but each and everyone is becoming more and more sceptical. By the day making us fearfull scrutining our chat mates wich is not suppose to be how xan trust then be based on we trusting. One another or perhaps makes you loose the best man or woman on this site

Men also get hurts

Men are predators woman you the gatheres they been hunting for centuries, and they still hunting so. Make the hunting game for them fun give oN the pace so he won't go tracking elsewhere,but in his own backyard make the hunt exciting stop thinking home,kids nd putting your man last on the list,yes there is prioroties but come on now ladies that excuse lame so don't blame men for looking some place else we don't make any effort for them to see us Eyes are there for a purpose to look,admire,want so the eyes wander seekingly and if something exciting and inviting catch it,it will pop.No excuse for that but we not making. An effort for it to stay put in its socket

Men also get hurts

U most welcome who am I to judge

Men also get hurts

I'm not gonna pull all men through the same needle, depending on a mans labour what proffession his in hangs to debate in this manor a man that performs hard labour is suppose to be given a leaniant chance wheras a office nan also because using your brain whole day can be a bit tierring and if you woman also work well then you improvise she cooking u bathing the kids all having supper homework checked kids off to bed then she must pour the bath little essence lure u with pretense to wash her back or u lure her nice To take a bath 2gether and let things go there way make some time for this scoundrels won't name them that mayb they just lack the innitiative to think

Men also get hurts

Ladies men through creation was putten on this earth first don't you forget it then our creator felt like making him a companion thus a determine she lead him into temptation which would have never happened if he roamed that garden alone but what the hect other wise mankind would have never existed now men you were conceived tru a woman making you vunerable In all ways she. Got one of your ribs making her stronger but that does not mean she's incontrol of you through being conceived tru a woman you were always dependant on them your mother comfort spoil bathed pampered loved you so y can't a woman do the same you asked u the Provider she supposed to be the comforter that's how its supposed to be in life thus ooooh my she tired when you want her she complaints forever she takes over what mans suppose to do now y you ask yourself because it comes down to what happened to me and yOu share do everything together now men if you lend her a helping hand share the chrores equaly up she won't be so tired as to satisfy all yOur basic needs in bed nd I mean it ladies if he committes to this theirs absolutely no exusE in the book not to give him what hIs heart desires

Men also get hurts

Dear Redwine betrayal by someone you loved is a hard thing to comprehend unforgiving at times she use the exuse of intoxication unacceptable you drink to get drunk not F-up what if it was vias versa I think she woulld haVe reacted in the same way but lessons learnt theirs no long lasting gaurantees in life eveyone makes blunders you felt like less of a man your ego was hurt thus don't carry these memories with you through life as it will hinder you from finding true love again it all begins with trust and there's no garuantee it won't happen. Again

Men also get hurts

Smartasss u got the drill girl spoil and be spoiled in reversed but theirs also that fine line to be drawn don't overstep boundaries certain things are allowed that's where the discussion with you and your man comes in play

Men also get hurts

Simmo1 how can anyone be jugdemental towards a feeling they should embrace it with open arms to cry to laugh. To anger are all feelings of expressions all human beings are embroid with this from birth so if a woman jugde you on this she is suuperficail disrespectfull towards ur vunerabilty and does not deserve you