Men also get hurts

both men and women need to love and to be loved,do respect and get repect for eachothers

aniekerk
WOW,
what a way to start your blogging career.
What you say is true of a lot of men, Also, some women tend to do the same.
I do not think it is wrong to share emotions and not to be judged as an emotional failure.

Simmo1 how can anyone be jugdemental towards a feeling they should embrace it with open arms to cry to laugh. To anger are all feelings of expressions all human beings are embroid with this from birth so if a woman jugde you on this she is suuperficail disrespectfull towards ur vunerabilty and does not deserve you

I agree with you Anie... nice blog.

Men sometimes need to be spoiled like a boy, not always have to be a shield.. to love and to be loved, to care and to be cared, to listen and to be listened, to hug and to be hugged... etc etc.. just equal..

Smartasss u got the drill girl spoil and be spoiled in reversed but theirs also that fine line to be drawn don't overstep boundaries certain things are allowed that's where the discussion with you and your man comes in play

wow... Redwine, so bad experience...

trauma... then you have thinking that all women like your ex. like that ? then you dont brave to take a step.. like that..

hhmmm.... I am so sorry to hear that.

Dear Redwine betrayal by someone you loved is a hard thing to comprehend unforgiving at times she use the exuse of intoxication unacceptable you drink to get drunk not F-up what if it was vias versa I think she woulld haVe reacted in the same way but lessons learnt theirs no long lasting gaurantees in life eveyone makes blunders you felt like less of a man your ego was hurt thus don't carry these memories with you through life as it will hinder you from finding true love again it all begins with trust and there's no garuantee it won't happen. Again

hi smart

still I believe there is exceptions every where and that all five fingers are not alike

hi anie

thus don't carry these memories with you through life as it will hinder you from finding true love again it all begins with trust and there's no garuantee it won't happen. Again

thank you very very much for sharing my concerns

And I never thought all women are like that and I never left respecting women and I always think she was just she and I just felt that she was not for me and perhapse a nicer woman will be waiting for me.


any how thank you once again as no one ever assured me the way you did it as you did it in entirely difernt way and exactly the way i wanted to hear.

@Redwine... you have good thought in handling your problem with a girl... and move on now..

smart thank you very much

Ladies men through creation was putten on this earth first don't you forget it then our creator felt like making him a companion thus a determine she lead him into temptation which would have never happened if he roamed that garden alone but what the hect other wise mankind would have never existed now men you were conceived tru a woman making you vunerable In all ways she. Got one of your ribs making her stronger but that does not mean she's incontrol of you through being conceived tru a woman you were always dependant on them your mother comfort spoil bathed pampered loved you so y can't a woman do the same you asked u the Provider she supposed to be the comforter that's how its supposed to be in life thus ooooh my she tired when you want her she complaints forever she takes over what mans suppose to do now y you ask yourself because it comes down to what happened to me and yOu share do everything together now men if you lend her a helping hand share the chrores equaly up she won't be so tired as to satisfy all yOur basic needs in bed nd I mean it ladies if he committes to this theirs absolutely no exusE in the book not to give him what hIs heart desires

I'm not gonna pull all men through the same needle, depending on a mans labour what proffession his in hangs to debate in this manor a man that performs hard labour is suppose to be given a leaniant chance wheras a office nan also because using your brain whole day can be a bit tierring and if you woman also work well then you improvise she cooking u bathing the kids all having supper homework checked kids off to bed then she must pour the bath little essence lure u with pretense to wash her back or u lure her nice To take a bath 2gether and let things go there way make some time for this scoundrels won't name them that mayb they just lack the innitiative to think

That was awesome aniekerk and very well said and true!Thank you.

U most welcome who am I to judge

Men are predators woman you the gatheres they been hunting for centuries, and they still hunting so. Make the hunting game for them fun give oN the pace so he won't go tracking elsewhere,but in his own backyard make the hunt exciting stop thinking home,kids nd putting your man last on the list,yes there is prioroties but come on now ladies that excuse lame so don't blame men for looking some place else we don't make any effort for them to see us Eyes are there for a purpose to look,admire,want so the eyes wander seekingly and if something exciting and inviting catch it,it will pop.No excuse for that but we not making. An effort for it to stay put in its socket