Hi there.. I understand how you feel but you dont have to feel so low and lose your confidence. Take it as a challenge and use it to boost your self, not to feel the other way around. Sometimes girls are attracted to men who have this air of confidence, who can carry thmselves even if its just in their head. Dont go for women who dont accept you as you are. You dont have to be with a person who doesnt apprecaite your little ways to make her feel special and least be used to get your hot friends.
One more thing, you're still young and you have a wonderful life ahead of you. Forget them and look straight and focus on who you want. YOu just have started life.. Dont start it with a negative attitude and mind... it pays to positive even the taking is hard and hopeless.
These are the moments when I can write a blog that mirrors my heart and empty my soul. It makes me even stronger to tell the world about the love I once had then lost. I would live in despair if I kept it inside.. and It's not a good feeling. I've been there. Strength are for those who are weak, and I am. and yeah I am stronger now than ever... Its basically how we perceive and react to each experience in life that gives us courage to be strong despite how bad we fall.
Not only men are visual.. women too. For me.. I want to see whom I am talking to and feel between our conversation of what type of person he/ she is. That is unveiling the cover. And of course a pic is just a presentation and there's no need to be stunning so people will scan it over to see the inside. I'm not stunning? lol.. but I got flowers, mails and good friends here.
Just be yourself.. not everyone likes us and that's a fact. So? I don't care. And its better to post a pic and see the real world here for yourself.
yeah... to think they're way older than these children!!! Growing-up is not intended for children only but also for adults who badly behave like toddlers.
But before doing that you have to love and understand yourself and overcome whatever issues you have with it... Sometimes people have unsettled issues with themselves. And when the right person is right in front of them, their heart leaps and know that that's it. However with unsettled issues, things would turn out what is unexpected even if they have tried communicating, understanding and putting unselfishly that other person before them. I guess these unsettled things within ourselves will forever haunt us and wreck every relationship we have. The best way is to liberate, love ourselves and be ready completely for the right person.
If you smoke and get dizzy and fall down... stop smoking!!!
about your boyfriend.. dont think negatively.. if you think that way.. things will turn that way because you tend to act what you think and that will surely affect your relationship with your Bf. I have been there and I thought also that way.. look now.. my ex left me!!!
So cheer up girl, think positively and if ever he left you.. you still had your positive attitude and outlook in life. That can pull you up and move graciously again. One more thing, being hurt is always part of our lives.. and you're not alone... Cheer up!!! and Good Luck
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I have loved and lost
I never thought I had the courage to say that after reading this again... how beautiful are the words that come out from our hearts when its bruised.