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The Secret of True love

Before we can discuss the secret to true love, you must understand that true love is a gift that has to be valued and nurished. It's not something that you find one day like a beautiful seashell on a beach and put it up somewhere to be admired. True love is a part of life that has a life of its own. Value and nurish it, and it will grow and become deeper and more valuable. Find it, give it no value and forget to nurish it, and it will die. Simple as that.

The first secret to true love is knowing when you have found the love of your life, your other half, the one who is more important to you than even yourself, the one your entire being tells you is the one for you. That may happen one day when you look across a room and meet the eyes of her or him, your eyes lock and your heart jumps, and the eyes you are looking into tell you that the same is happening on the other side of that gaze. It could also happen when you are out with someone that you have dated casually for months, but never really felt much of anything for. Suddenly, one night, your heart could leap as your eyes meet or your lips touch. Knowing you have found true love might be just a quiet knowing that the person is the one for you. It happens differently for different people.

After meeting your true love, the secret to keeping the love alive is to unselfishly put the other person before yourself and communicate with that person in a positive and open manner. Many great relationships have lost their pizazz due to mistakes of one or both becoming selfish and not communicating with the other. Even those who have found their true loves have lost them because of the hurt and disappointment caused when the love of your life's actions and words say "you don't matter," "I'm for me first," and similar things.

When two people find true love and each puts the other's hopes, dreams, desires, and feelings above their own and communicates in such a way as to build the other up and share their innermost thoughts, beautiful things happen! The true love that was found grows into something more beautiful than a rose, deeper than the deepest ocean, and stronger than anything imaginable. Anything less than being unselfish, putting the other before yourself, and great communication and it's tough for even true love to survive.

Comments (3)

Hugz_n_Kissez
Love this...great description and totally true....hug hug
danieljarvis
who is that dodgy old women who is following me around?
trulymadlydeeply
But before doing that you have to love and understand yourself and overcome whatever issues you have with it... Sometimes people have unsettled issues with themselves. And when the right person is right in front of them, their heart leaps and know that that's it. However with unsettled issues, things would turn out what is unexpected even if they have tried communicating, understanding and putting unselfishly that other person before them. I guess these unsettled things within ourselves will forever haunt us and wreck every relationship we have. The best way is to liberate, love ourselves and be ready completely for the right person.


JMO

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