Does time heal all wounds caused by griefs?
Although the grieving process is complex, there are a few simple signs that signal "it's time to let go and move forward."What heals the wounds is finding the courage to step over the pain and reach out for something we can appreciate.
It's called HOPE. Grab it! Hold on to it! And breathe in and out, knowing life goes on and so can you.
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Grief is real. Grief grows weaker over time and people heal. Drama goes on forever. People that don't move on...don't move on because it benefits them somehow. Just understand, if someone is not moving on...it is time for everyone else to move on without them. They choose to stick there.
If you stay with them and console them, you are enabling them. That is the payoff. Attention.
17 hours ago
Yes Mary4b, time does heal the hurtfull wounds but the memories stays i guess. . . At least it does for me . .
hi Kasih
The memories do stay, its how we deal with them that helps or prevents us in moving forward.
For me, I acknowledge the bad memories & let them go without dwelling on them, but draw from them the lessons learned & move on
The good memories, again, I acknowledge them, draw from them the strength, laughter, joy they contain, then I move on.
Our memories are a record of past life.
They can assist us in the healing & moving on, but we must not allow them to take over our current or future life.
Remember, then let go, for each day, we make new memories
Speaking from personal experience..some "hurts" just never go away.
I am "southern born, southern bred", therefore it was instilled in me early to be a one woman man and expect the same from the person I married.
So...when you give all you know how to give in every aspect and
(God's Truth) remain faithful to that one for years only to eventually learn she's been "playing house" with another member of your immediate family and everything you've been taught and believe suddenly isn't true...How do you get over that? It's been over 30 years and it still hurts. So when you figure it out...PLEASE tell me.