No idea... Maybe one was not as bad as the other?... Hope you can get more information... I would like to know what happened with that poor man... It really breaks my heart...
"Do the thing you fear most and the death of fear is certain." I love that quote... And I try to live by it... Of course, said is easier than done... That´s why I said I "try"... Jajajajajajajajajajaj... Nah, seriously... I don´t think I have any major fears... But I will keep you informed...
Vierk, don't worry... I DO know what to say here, jajajajajajaja... I can totally understand you... There´s nothing like a foreign lady... Jajajajajjajjajaja... And regarding obstacles or differences I can only say "Where there´s a will, there´s a way" and I also think differences can only enrich and complement each other´s lives... But again, that´s just my humble opinion... I hope that when you find the right one, you make everything in your power to have her with you... In other words, make me proud!...
Wow... I can only imagine how the person with the wrong leg cut off would feel... That is so wrong... I think no amount of money can make up for anything like that...
Kornbluth... There are thousands of successful love stories that have been shared on the web... I didn´t mean it to sound like he had to give us every detail... But he is so happy about it and I am happy for both of them... So yes, I want to read about it... Makes me believe I can find my special one, here, too... Have a great day!...
Merc, I wouldn´t have been happy, either... Especially because I am sure your instinct is to protect her from anyone that tries to take advantage of her... As to that man, I firmly believe we all get what we deserve... Sooner or later, we all do...
Merc, I am so sorry... It breaks my heart to read that... But, you know... Our parents are just humans and also make mistakes, like us... Your Mom was thinking with her heart, obviously... I can´t speak for her but I don´t think she would do anything to hurt you intentionally...
Ladies and gentlemen, as I said I wish Thir13en and his lady the best of luck... And I hope he keeps us informed about it... I would definitely want to read about that first meeting of them...
Wow, Thir13en... I am really happy for you... I hope yours is one of those successful love stories we read about... I wish you and your nice lady the best of luck, from the bottom of my heart!...
Itchy, my blogs would be nothing without all the wonderful feedback I get from each one of you... I absolutely adore reading you guys and girls... And I feel honored to read that you like them... Thank you so much and sweet dreams!...
Wilba, I don´t know how big my head is... I think it´s proportional to the rest of my body, jajajajajajajajaj... I have to tell you I am one of those "dreamers" or "dumb" people that think that maybe they can find love in one of these sites... And my heart, my body and my soul wish that if there is someone that wants the same I want, he will find the way to get to me and he will do everything he has to do for us to become a beautiful reality... Amen!...
It´s all good, Itchy... Nothing to worry about... I just noticed a while ago I typed "negociate", so I mixed "negociar" with "negotiate"... That´s my own very particular "spanglish", jajajajajajajajaj... And regarding being homeless, of course I am afraid, I just hadn´t given it a thought... And that´s precisely why I love to read all your comments, because I am learning so much and I can´t tell you how grateful I am... And I have to confess that even though I am close to being 50, I still make "stupid" choices... Good thing is I am an avid learner and I take full responsibility for my mistakes... Hope that counts, jajajajajajajajaja...
Molly, this is what I love about you commenting... I hadn´t thought of that other side, you just mentioned... And I didn´t, because things are so bad in my country, I wouldn´t let the man I loved relocate here... I would think of buying a place here, just for us and alternate locations through the year... But I would rather relocate than tell anyone to live here, permanently... And if I moved to another country, I would try to make my own circle of friends, not just limit to his... I would want to have my own space, time and life... Please, don´t think I am getting you wrong... I absolutely adore to read all your comments... As I said before, I love to learn and this is a wonderful way of doing so... Thank you so, so much!...
Wilba, I have been here for almost a year and I have to confess I never paid attention to the blogs... Just a little before posting my first one I commented on a few ones and they seem to be gone... I have also read that there are people that have a very hard time getting along well, here... And it´s natural... We are all different and have different opinions, thoughts, feelings... I try to treat everyone the way I want to be treated... And I am just here to have a nice time... I love to learn and read and get to know people from around the world... I also hope my blogs can help anyone that reads them as much as they help me learn from all the wonderful and useful comments I get everyday...
Molly, I totally see your point… I think if you really get to know that person and you are serious about each other that person would start introducing you to the people that are important to him/her so you would start getting to know more than just one person… The immigration aspect I guess depends on each country… Learning a new language I don´t think that would be a reason because you had to know that language to be able to communicate with the object of your love in the first place, at least partially… Moving with someone you don´t know is always a lottery… Be right back… I have to polish my pink cracked glasses… Jajajajajajajjajaja…
No particular reason, Itchy... I just talked about myself and my own experience and thought that maybe you could feel the same... Please, don´t forget english is not my native language and sometimes I may have a hard time trying to express exactly what I am thinking... I really like reading your comments and I also learn a lot... See?... I didn´t think of being homeless as a reason not to relocate for love... But I can totally see your point... That´s another aspect to consider... Thank you so much!...
Wilba, you just melted my heart with that last comment... Thank you so much for being so sweet... I just started posting here and I can´t be happier with all the wonderful feedback I am getting... You know... I just thought that I have pushed good men away from me just because of fear of being hurt... But I also know that I have learned to put those fears to one side and focused on being happy... And it really works, even though I am single at the moment!, jajajajajajajaja... I am absolutely loving reading your comments and I am also learning a lot!... Again, thank you so much!...
That´s interesting, Itchy... What makes you think that way?... Are you too set in your ways?... Maybe afraid of closeness, because it makes you vulnerable and prone to being hurt?... I think all of us, over 40 may be too set in our ways and there´s nothing wrong with it... But when you think about it... Isn´t it worthy to let another soul get close to you?... I love my "me" and "alone" time... But I think there are ways to negociate and balance my "me" time and my time with the man I love... I am afraid of getting too close and being hurt, too... But the only certain thing in this life is that there is nothing certain... Have a wonderful night!...
"sensible and dedicated pair of people"... I called them two very special souls... Can´t agree more with you, Wilba... And that´s exactly what I´m looking for... A very, very special soul...
Wilba, I totally agree with you... I don´t think there is anything wrong in putting "Anywhere"... Actually, I think it´s fantastic!... I just wondered if people really would put the effort in achieving that elusive thing that love can be... Especially when it´s far away from "home"...
Johnjjm, I agree... Takes a lot of effort... But I can only imagine the feeling of having that person that was a mere picture or a face on a video, face to face... To see that person... Smell that person... Touch that person... Feel that person... Totally worth the effort...
UnFayzed, I agree... And the emails he sent gave me the feeling I was reading a teenage girl... Yuck... I can only imagine what it would be to try to have an adult conversation with him... Thanks, but no thanks... And regarding the email, I gave him an address I created just for this site, so no harm done... As I said before, I love how people that comment on my blog are so helpful... I love it and appreciate it... Thank you sooo much and have a wonderful day!...
RE: thankfully it's only cabinet doors...
No idea... Maybe one was not as bad as the other?... Hope you can get more information... I would like to know what happened with that poor man... It really breaks my heart...