Thank You Soooo Much. Any breakup is hard enough, even without harsh words spoke. When someone leaves us behind, the human nature is for self doubts to come out of no where. We start thinking, what's wrong with me? OR maybe If they leave you for someone else, you probably think..what does she have that I don't have ? I know that beauty comes from within and I know that looks fade. BUT at that moment that he stood in front of me and calmly said, he wanted beauty on the outside as well as on the inside, that he wouldn't settle for anything other than the total package...Well he stole my self esteem and it left with him. Really no different from a theif breaking into your home and stealing something so very important to you ! Let's combine the Ex with the Theif, If you could get it back, what they stole from you, would you not smile and think, I got it back ! It empowers you. That's how I want feel right now.. Well... I know I'm NOT hidious... but when I look into the mirror, I'M VERY critical of the me that I see. What he stole from me, well I feel like I to have to replace with better than before, or the best I can be. To empower myself even more than before.
Thank you all sooo much for giving me sooo many ways to think about this.
It's always comforting to know that I am not alone.
I like your poems. Would you contact me please ? I'm going through something really hurtful right now and I was wondering if you might have a poem that would fit what I am going through.
I can only speak from what I went through to answer your question. I was considered "Beautiful" on the inside by a Handsome man that I cared a great deal about. Looks are important...above and beyond everything. So I learned this through him.I was dumped by him because He told me that he wanted "Beautiful" on the outside as well as on the inside. I think I was that on the inside, but not on the outside, according to him. Do you know how much that hurt ? I carry myself very well and proper and with some confidence. It's till really fresh, I'm sorry. I am now consulting with a cosemetic surgeon, so I can beautiful on the outside as well. Thanks, Mary
I read this and just had to respond ! I was just dumped by a man because he told me he wanted beauty on the OUTSIDE as well as on the inside. I guess what he was saying is that I was not beautiful on the outside. Do you know how bad that hurt me ?! I am now checking into cosmetic surgery so I can be that beautiful woman on the outside.
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Thank You For Your Friendship (s) :)Talk Soon,
Mary