Does Personality Traits Influence Perceived Attra

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I was chatting with some of my work colleagues over lunch today about Personal Relationships and the way in which perceptions of physical attractiveness are influenced by personality. I found out that individuals – both men and women – who exhibit positive traits, such as honesty and helpfulness, are perceived as better looking. Those who exhibit negative traits, such as unfairness and rudeness, appear to be less physically attractive to observers.
So I asked one of them. Do you think this guy is attractive? I was referring to one of the handsome guys working with us.” Perceiving a person as having a desirable personality makes the person more suitable in general as a close relationship partner of any kind,” said my college, that proofed to me, a positive personality leads to greater desirability as a friend, which leads to greater desirability as a romantic partner and, ultimately, to being viewed as more physically attractive.
Funny to know, most of them repeatedly said regardless of how “attractive” the individual was initially perceived to be, Physical appearance and personality is an independent source in predicting attraction. So we all laughed or deep inside some of the girls wished to have had a committed relationship with a physically attractive person first!! Despite their saying that this, may change over time due to their positive or negative traits!!.
My today’s conversation provided me with positive thinking, by reminding people that personality goes a long way toward determining your attractiveness; it can even change people’s impressions of how good looking you are, Do you want to look attractive? And have you had such experience in which personality won against physical attractiveness?
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Yes. I would prefer (and have dated) a less physically attractive woman with a great personality over the opposite. In fact a charming lady I "saw" for a year was originally raised in Geneva, Switzerland, although a US citizen. She did not consider herself physically attractive (although I did), but her personality, charm and intelligence were great.
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So I am replying you humbly before you become too famous...!!
Instant attraction.judegs persnality... well ,well well ,that's good to know..however I have no experience with chunky face Midwest girls!! perhaps you could share your experience with us...what do you say? And please before you become too famous!!
Have a grat day..
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I can only speak from what I went through to answer your question. I was considered "Beautiful" on the inside by a Handsome man that I cared a great deal about. Looks are important...above and beyond everything. So I learned this through him.I was dumped by him because He told me that he wanted "Beautiful" on the outside as well as on the inside. I think I was that on the inside, but not on the outside, according to him. Do you know how much that hurt ? I carry myself very well and proper and with some confidence. It's till really fresh, I'm sorry. I am now consulting with a cosemetic surgeon, so I can beautiful on the outside as well.
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Mary
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