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Traits Men Find Attractive in a Woman?
We had a debate yesterday night at our favorite restaurant, friends we meet nice a week, boys and girls, talk and laugh...so conversation led us to this issue.
Traits Men Find Attractive in a Woman? So I could resume some out the conversation.
Depending on a man' personality, there are a lot of things that he may find attractive in a woman. It is important to understand though,that men can look at women from two different points of views. The first being a woman to have a temporary love making relationship with and the second to have a woman as a life partner. Depending on these two points of views, men can look for and get attracted by different aspects in a woman. It is easy to understand that when it comes to a temporary love making relationship, men look for a good physical structure, especially nice breasts and back. But when it comes to pursuing a serious relationship is different!!,so i placed some points for them and asked them to choose which one of these men look for and get attracted to an entirely different set of traits.

1.) Smile of a woman

2.) Feminine and delicate Nature

3.) A woman's voice

4.) Sense of humor

5.) Un-materialistic attitude

6.) Strong personality

7.) The eyes

8.) The Woman's Hair

9.) Physical Structure

10.) Comfortable and Confident

Last but not the least, men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable and confident. Woman who laugh at their jokes, woman who supports them in and outside and the one with whom he feels relaxed and open.

So these were important traits that swiss men find attractive in women. But again, as I said before, every man has his unique taste.
Now you guys would you like to add some thing and what is the most important Traits in the whole list. as for you ladies not to forget The above points are common to most men but not for all. For every woman there is a man out there, so just relax and look out for him.
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What about the mind and personality....
it's got a big amount of marks!

But the eye needs it's partdevil professor
To charndono1
Thanks for your comment. Let me tell you people do read what you wrote! I do receive daily many mails about I write in the blogs. So best assure of this. What you have said is absolutely correct scientifically and by experience...but if this was the only thing people get attracted to so how do you explain the fact that I know many not so good looking girls below average and yet they are married to super handsome guy in many cases even younger than them.!!!!Perhaps there some chemistry some where .many people here they think Barak Obama is much more handsome than Michael his wife...and I do agree with them. She no where near Carla Sarkozy of France for example, yet American have voted her the most beautiful woman in states!! She is not even having the balanced figure! So what made him marry her..!!!?? Well some magic could be the answer to some inexplicable cases...Personality, ECT...Don’t you think so? Beauty measures are relative depending on countries, races and ideas. If we all have been super model it could have been boring....
Must also be willing to communicate her feelings!!
For this man? That's for me to know and others to find out. banana
Everything you said was correct Ingi. Don't get me wrong. I'm just like everyone one else when they say they are attracted to personality over looks. I am just pointing out an observed truth.

on the Barack and Michelle topic: I personally believe, as far as looks go, they are fairly evenly matched. My opinion aside, obviously their relationship is much deeper than the superficial. most marriages are. However, I am certain that her being good looking (or mildly good looking) played a pivotal part in Baracks initial attraction.

I dont know their history and how they met each other. But i am using their relationship to get to my overall point. Looks are everything when it comes to that initial spark felt. Whether its a glance from across the room or a tiny thumbnail pic on a singles site.

It's like having a really great resume. If the employer likes what they see. it warrants an interview, and a possible position with that company will follow.

Having good looks (clean, healthy,basic grooming at the very least), warrants a conversation, and a possible long relationship/marriage (based on a deeper attraction).

Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule. Not everyone fits into this category. However, I'm talking about most people.
It's not all about the body. Look at Charlie and Camilla. He loves her, but not Diana. WHY! Nothing in common. Camila praised her prince, was interested in the things he was, held intelligent conversations with him. Basically fulfilled his emotional and interlectual needs. Made his ego swim-Diana didn't. I fully believe if you want a man to love you, you need to make him feel good about himself, find what his love need are.heart wings
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