It's not all about the body. Look at Charlie and Camilla. He loves her, but not Diana. WHY! Nothing in common. Camila praised her prince, was interested in the things he was, held intelligent conversations with him. Basically fulfilled his emotional and interlectual needs. Made his ego swim-Diana didn't. I fully believe if you want a man to love you, you need to make him feel good about himself, find what his love need are.
I am looking forward to being in the senior over 55 groups. There is so much going on for the retired or older singles. Join these groups. I think you will meet way better men there. Get out into the community is what I'm trying to say, or join a church group. We have a singles group at our church that meets every week...can be fun
Thanks for the comments people. I am fascinated that it happens so much it seems. I love to wear heels sometimes and being with a taller guy I feel more feminine. Small guys make me feel like Amazon woman. I wish I could be one of these women who dates shorter men, just can’t. I did it for a while and didn’t like it.
To say you believe I am wrong because you believe differently is one thing,it shoes respect for the other's opinion without trying to make them think like you, but saying "wrong answer", is bigoted and doesn't offer that same respect for others belief systems.
I think, what a girl likes, depends on her love language. Gary Chapman outlines them quiet well in his book "The Five Love Languages" The five languages are these:
• Words of Affirmation This is when you say how nice your spouse looks, or how great the dinner tasted. These words will also build your mate's self image and confidence. • Quality Time Some spouses believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. If this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention. • Gifts It is universal in human cultures to give gifts. They don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. Spouses who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a spouse who feels neglected and unloved. • Acts of Service Discovering how you can best do something for your spouse will require time and creativity. These acts of service like vacuuming, hanging a bird feeder, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love. • Physical Touch Sometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.
Speaking in your spouse's love language probably won't be natural for you. Dr. Chapman says, "We're not talking comfort. We're talking love. Love is something we do for someone else. So often couples love one another but they aren't connecting. They are sincere, but sincerity isn't enough."
Women are just as bad. If you feel a victim you will be victimized by people. Change your attitude quick girlfriend or you will always be stuck in your rut. the nice glasses comment was too funny.
I feel a kindred spirit here. Thanks so much for your thoughts doesitgetbetter. Wonderful testimony. Yes JESUS is worth loving til it hurts, and it has a times. If more people were like you Church would be a better place to go Sunday. You remind me of the scripture that goes something like -those who are forgiven much love much. . I hope you can keep that love for Jesus even when you are with the heavies at church. I failed in that department.
Dear Comp63 You are so right. I had the very same experience with a guy I didn't find attractive at first , but later, after i saw him in different situations , something changed in my feelings. BUT, I didn't meet him on an internet site. This is different, it's all visual here. Most people are not going to go for something they don't find appealing to the visual senses. Get MY point- I get yours
Hey Comp63...I've fallen for you, your mind it's brilliant, you have such a wow perspective-- marry me, I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE......NOT
Seriously the ideal is good Comp63 but the reality just ain't. Be honest women and men are extremely visual. The personality can be great and I would love to be "friends" with a man if his character was good, but I have to desire. We all do if we are human mate.
Anyway a man that doesn't post his picture could very well be married
I teach English to newcomers to Canada. If English isn't your first language, then of course, grammar mistakes are understandable. But many of my students write better than some native English speakers. It annoys me when an obviously English native speaker can't bother to check his grammar and spelling when emailing me. I delete them really fast. That’s just my thing... I like to read the dictionary sometimes for fun, to find words I like. Some people like to look at bugs under a microscope....it takes all sorts, but Linguistics is pretty fascinating to me.
What's wrong is your self esteem. Think there is nothing wrong with you-lift yourself up girl. Don't take it personally. The internet is full of players, but good ones too. Also remember there is an anonymity to the net that is hard to deal with sometimes. Blessings to you deb
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the nice glasses comment was too funny.
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