what are five romance-killing habits ?

In my effort to better understand how men think,i reached to some simple and can–not-ignore points , that your, guy isn't the only one whose clueless behavior can trip up your love connection. While we girls may be vigilant about the stuff we care about--like showing affection and including him when making plans--we have a way of letting the stuff that bugs him slide. And that hits him harder than you'd think.
The little things can add up, says psychologist Noelle Nelson, author of The Power of Appreciation in Everyday Life. Some behaviors can drive a wedge between you two and, she says, possibly lead to a split if they remain unchecked.
So guys how to avoid letting mindless mistakes seep into your relationship and create cracks--even craters--in your bond. And what are the five romance-killing habits?and how to keep Your Love on Track?
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The best way to keep your love on track it`s easy and simple.
You have to find something new everyday and surprise him,if he ddoes the same the relation will grow like a beautiful flower.
Be happy
Lack of communication really puts the bees in my bonnet.
Integrity, I'll second that one! Not much can be "fixed" if your partner won't tell you about it.
Both women and men do their share "to kill romance"
I say this just because I am not sure anymore if that is killed or just die following natural laws.

I have seen women that act following their "now-let´s-settle-down- and forget about all what they did to attract their men (this should have biological roots innature) on the other hand men cannot get aside of the basic disctate of nature: "spread your seeds", so after a while all the romance that was mostly based on hormone impulses start failing and losing the push it had at the beginning.

There must be exceptions to these rules but there are extraordinarily very few.

In fact, the best way to destroy romance is to use it too much...though sometimes it does not take much to get it worn out.

It just dies following natural reasons I think.
It is as simple as posible she should except him as he is, alot of women start dating a guy, despite the fact, that she knows about his habits, that bug her, thinking to her self, that she will change him, well, not gona happen. So after he does not change, she starts buging him and of course here be craks, that lead often to unhappiness for both of the parties and eventualy a brake up. So my advice would be, except each other as you both are all of us have our ovn habits, adjsut, and meet each other half way, show him that u apriciate him, and you will be repayed double. Do not say "nothing" if something is bothering you, as we tend to take it at face walue, if u say nothing, then it is nothing and we will not concern our selfs any more about it. Say it, talk about it with us, we just might just suprise you and listen.
We can not read mind's and body language, men are blind to it, as a bat in daylight. As soon as u realise that we are just from two diferant planets the easier will be for all of us We are so difernat, couse we are supose to work together, compliment each other.
But of course, everything I wrote goes both ways, relationship is not a one way street, it is not, a place for egoism, and first condition, both parties should have trust in each other, big enough maturity, to go above ourselfs and big enough emotional oppenes to be able to ecept your partner ash he/she is, and especialy guys, should have big enough self confidance, as not to feel threatened by smart, capable more sucessful women then them selfs.
It is a simple fact, men are from Mars and Women from Venus
The book you mentioned sounds like a good read. Nice.
rolling on the floor laughing tongue
doh yay
aren't we all different???????
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