Have you thought of socialising with other mothers at your childrens school , get some mothers together in the mornings for coffee after you all drop the children off at school . My daughter in law does this at the coffee shop near the school every morning at least 10 of them meet up. Its a great social way to start your day .
Well it's all about learning, and I think you should have by now, looks like your whole thinking and attitude has to change. Number one is don't be so trusting people who come into your life have to earn your trust the same as we have to earn the trust of others ., this is why rule 1) do not rush in to a relationship , build a solid foundation first there is know need to get ripped of as a guy in your age group should not need your financial input! if he does then he is not much of a man and he is not good for your life.
We are all good at reading the signs but tend to ignore them , this time really be true to your self ask your self what it is you really want and settle for nothing less, or you may as well stay alone . Rule 2) don't expect to meet the right one the first date other wise you set your self up for dissapointment , your attitude should be go for coffee and just see what happens its all about testing the waters and please don't be what he wants you to be, really just be yourself and if he does not like it to bad say see you later as for sure he is not the right one for you .
Main thing you have to put your self out there and forget the past its gone , start a new life and a new you with a new attitude ok ,do not bring up old relationships when with another man he will only pretend to listen as who needs to listen to anyone who dwells in the past men prefer a woman who knows what she want,s and has a little mystery about her self ok , good luck hope I have helped a little .
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Have you thought of socialising with other mothers at your childrens school , get some mothers together in the mornings for coffee after you all drop the children off at school . My daughter in law does this at the coffee shop near the school every morning at least 10 of them meet up. Its a great social way to start your day .