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Mar 2010

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Waiting without the Weight

I am wondering about something! For all my life I've been in and out of relatioships hoping to find the 'Right One'. I have been unsuccessful to date. As most of us, I am single.

Because of the fact that I have two kids I dont think I want to pursue another relationship anytime soon.. Somehow I am hoping that a wonderful guy just finds me! LOL.. but anyways, I've decided to wait! However, my dilemma is how to wait without it becoming a Weight? Beside taking care of my kids, what do I do? I have no single female or male friends that live in this country.. and all my siblings are way too old to socialise at the places I would like to .. and my nieces and nephews are way to young!! What do I do? It would be interesting to hear your comments / suggestions!

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Venusruled●Golden, Colorado USA

Mar 5, 2010●724 Comments

What would light your fire? Something just for you? Painting class, yoga, hang gliding? What is a passion that you have not explored up until now?

I just started belly dance classes. What a hoot! Have the little bells around my hips and everything. Been a yogini for years but may just go to my first Kundalini class. Just suggestions- whatever you decide make it all about you!

cameltrader●dubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates

Mar 5, 2010●3 Blogs●174 Comments

Since there is a weight issue involved here, I want to comment. I would suggest that with or without having it to become a weight, stop waiting. You are waiting for what exactly, you have kids. Be fully devoted to them and enjoy your motherhood. Enjoy the wonderful gifts of your first love.

cameltrader●dubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates

Mar 5, 2010●3 Blogs●174 Comments

would you like to relocate and live with me?

nicki_loveOP●originally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 5, 2010●6 Blogs●43 Comments

What? and be subjected to you belittling my 'level of intelligence'? .. nah

Oh and I dont think you want to live with someone who 'wasted their time suntanning on the beach' while you spent countless hours studying big words at school!

First impressions always last my dear! I have to decline but thanks for the offer anyway!

whitec●Nowra, New South Wales Australia

Mar 5, 2010●37 Blogs●184 Comments

Hi Nicky I am going through the same thing , trying to find what I wont for myself, and between looking after my my son and other family member, it is hard to think of our self some times , but after some real good advice from people on here I wouldn't even be doing that, as I had got my self in a rut it is so easy to do when, you have a family, but I am feeling a lot more confordent in myself now, and thinking of me for a change, so just think about you for a while Nicky , do something nice for your self, and start from there , all the best to you

shanri●melton, Victoria Australia

Mar 6, 2010●4 Comments

Have you thought of socialising with other mothers at your childrens school , get some mothers together in the mornings for coffee after you all drop the children off at school . My daughter in law does this at the coffee shop near the school every morning at least 10 of them meet up. Its a great social way to start your day .

Venusruled●Golden, Colorado USA

Mar 6, 2010●724 Comments

That's a great idea, Shanri! I used to get together with some women and we would make Soul Collages (there is a book about it out there). We cut card stock paper to be about the size of a postcard and we took pictures from magazines and such and made collages on these cards that represent certain things. For instance if you were to make a card that represented fear, you would look for pictures that matched that representation. It is fun and a great way to gain insight into you! Plus it's cheap and creative and social.

Anyway, just an idea

nicki_loveOP●originally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 6, 2010●6 Blogs●43 Comments

Ladies, I thank you ALL for your ideas and suggestions! One of my elder sisters signed me up at a "Growing Kids God's Way" class at Church, starting today.. maybe that might be interesting.. we'll see. If not, then I probably need to go find out if I am depressed (I know one of the main symptoms of that is loss of interest).

cameltrader●dubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates

Mar 6, 2010●3 Blogs●174 Comments

you mean my interest in you?

nicki_loveOP●originally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 10, 2010●6 Blogs●43 Comments

LOl.. at Pitts.. that's kinda funny!

ragho84●Delhi, India

Mar 12, 2010●3 Comments

Tuhari place sahi me wahi hai hamara india nahi.kyo ki tumhe india me Mam nahi randi ya bidhwa ya rakhel kaha jaiga or thora bhi sarm ya lajja ho to hamare Desh(India) mat aana. Kitna din wahain rakhel bani rahi wahain par or phir kab chhora. Please randi tum Hamare Desh(India) me mat aana hamara Desh(India) ganda ho jaiga.Please.....

ragho84●Delhi, India

Mar 12, 2010●3 Comments

Tuhari place sahi me wahi hai hamara india nahi.kyo ki tumhe india me Mam nahi randi ya bidhwa ya rakhel kaha jaiga or thora bhi sarm ya lajja ho to hamare Desh(India) mat aana. Kitna din wahain rakhel bani rahi wahain par or phir kab chhora. Please randi tum Hamare Desh(India) me mat aana hamara Desh(India) ganda ho jaiga.Please.....

nicki_loveOP●originally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 12, 2010●6 Blogs●43 Comments

Can someone please tell me what this guy is saying!

nicki_loveOP●originally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 12, 2010●6 Blogs●43 Comments

Oh Sanfran.. you crack me up!! Love that!

ragho84●Delhi, India

Mar 12, 2010●3 Comments

Kya hoo aa. Hindi samajh me nahi aati kya to english me samjhoo?
Tumhe koe nahi milega janti ho kyo.Ab tum mail(ragho84@yahoo.com) karo to mai bataooga.

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