Secretagent: I agree, when in doubt we should think it twice (or more) before we take decision. Sometimes though it is good to take risks, in other words go with the heart and not always with the brain. Taking risks is what makes life more exciting, we don't always win, but we don't lose either, we just learn
Thank you all for sharing your thoughts. There is not a perfect approach, it is just what works for each one of us. What is important is to be sure about our decisions at the time we take them. Based on that approach indeed it is never too late...
ForeverandEver: I like your approach and this is how it should be for everyone, but sometimes when I do something I get the feeling that I should have done it earlier. Never mind this is just my approach
Thank you all for sharing your thoughts. I'm dealing with it quite well doing stuff that I haven't done for a while, but not all moments are the same. There are moments that you feel the loneliness no matter what you do, but this is part of the process of getting back to "normal" again. I did not want to go an other dates as this won't be fair for this other person, but I think it's time to do that, probably quite soon
Is it really "never too late"?
Jimnastics: we have changed the rules we like to exchange ideas and be more interactive