cos men only feel safe when they got somthing in thier hands and if thats the only way they can get to press the right buttons... youve taken any pride they have in thier shallow little world huuny...
the decent ones would totally respect your wishes and continue to message untill you feel comfortable to release your number!!..
you start a forum on here you get one reply to your question by a regular then they have there followers join in and the question lost... so answer to you question is no hunny i dont!!
mine also went through a very rough time, violent ex, and i think you tend to protect them al the more to guide them to not making the same mistakes as you yourself have for the father mother relationship to break up!!!
i also think the absent parent should pay but this also goes in their favour cos i do believe they should have the right to see the children they pay for..... (circumstances aloud)
as a single parent of three girls i understand totally what you say and whilst my children are still dependant of me...IE.. living at home. unfortunatly if the guy id met didnt get on with any of them he would be right out the door... as for paying for their own children i think that should be done but maybe but into a saving bond of sorts for their college fees deposit on house or their marrage!!...
ive been a single mum for 10yrs now and never recieved a penny from my ex but that doesnt stop him being their father, altho ive never stopped him seeing them he never made the effort.. (his loss) ... two of my girls are beautiful young ladies now and they see this for themselves...
up to now any private life i had i kept from my girls that way i found the true person befor they ever got chance to meet my girls....
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awwis there a matching outfit babs??
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