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RE: Toxic people

My art ruler measures 1 m... but of course I understand it will never reach 15 m from the sun

RE: Toxic people

Most people's visits to Spain has something or other to do with the sun....

RE: Toxic people

Do you live in a tunnel?

RE: Toxic people

In Málaga " is not a unit of measurement ...
Here rulers are in cm or mm which could cause further confusion

RE: Toxic people

Absolutely!
I found that often there are patterns of behaviours ... and learned to recognise what some people call 'red flags' ... so when being observant, walking away is easier earlier rather than later when we are more deeply emotionally invested ...
It also takes trusting our own judgement and sense of observation, anything that makes ud uncomfortable, rather than brush it off as 'not important' and telling ourself 'it'll be ok' just because we want it to wotk...

RE: Toxic people

Yep! Exactely!

@ carving knife!
A tell tell sign may be ...
Or a sign of incompatibility ...

RE: Toxic people

yes!

RE: Toxic people

Mentioned wrong person in the post and corrected above

RE: Toxic people

Which goes back to what I said earlier .... our humaness makes us less than perfect ... not to be confused with extremes of behaviour as a character trait ...

Serene makes a good point, someone's extreme behaviour can be the result emotional trauma or other...

I think it's up to everyone to set bounderies so they're not affected adversely by other's idiosyncrasies ... may be ...

RE: Toxic people

Also... with time/experience we are much quicker to recognise 'toxicity' when we observe it around us ...

RE: Toxic people

There is a difference between having a balance of 'humaness' which means perfection is mostly elusive and having a character trait that is so predominently toxic that it affects the quality of the lives of those who don't set firm bounderies and or walk away ... I think ...

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Always such a gentleman...

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Yeah! Even though I knocked a few years off ... I went from 120 to 99!


First read I thought you wrote meaowing ...

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

I'm amazed you bothered to reply to my silly questions

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Sounds sweet Ro

Sounds like you could do with food grade Diatomaceous earth...
You can put it on his fur and in you bed and on the floor ... anywhere ... I sprinkle some in my car too in case my dogs leave any 'uninvited friends' behind... I put it in their space and every now and then under my furniture ....
You can vacum it all off from any surface ...
I get food grade instead of animal grade so if they lick themselves it won't be harmful...
It's also good for getting rid of intestinal parasites ...

Bless you both

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

are you saying the 'test mating' had something to do with you?
Or that you had something to do with the connection with the Begian guy?

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Makes you wonder doesn't it?

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Hey Ro!

How's your lovely kitty doing?

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Ruthless people everywhere

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

they must be exploiting TC's Holly's photo shoot!
Some people are ruthless!

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

May be Holly had a photo shoot

RE: Soup of the day

Yeah! Sure! Let's have a party!

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Wooooooowoooooooo!
Congratulations!
Well done for picking one another

You picked up a name yet?
Tiger could be cool... or Little Tiger!
L.T. for short

RE: THE KITTEN HAS LANDED

Or if he sucks on your shirt and makes soaked everytime he's on his lap

RE: Soup of the day

You girls will have to come and visit! I'll make a paella especially! No mussels!

RE: Your karma is based off your intent...

RE: Do you think girls dress up to impress guys, or to impress other women?

@Kaybee!
Delighted to see you!
Love your post!

Enjoyed reading about your health victory

RE: Do you think girls dress up to impress guys, or to impress other women?

There is a difference between giving some though to what we wear including the criteria KBee mentions and 'dressing to impress' .... and yes personality will probably have played a part the moment the garment was picked ... unless the woman is 'controled by someone' and doesn't get to pick what to buy ....

RE: Your karma is based off your intent...

RE: Happy Women

Must be something you and some other guys do or say to make them mad Ali!

I personally find most of them smily and friendly!