I think many people inderstand the word 'beautiful' to mean young and 'model like features'... I could not disagree more ... For me 'beautiful' and attractive has changed and mutated over the years. What makes someone attractive for me now is more about vitality than about youth. Alive, a twinkle in the eye, laughter lines, eyes that smile when the mouth does, a spring in his step, kind indulgent outlook on the less fortunate, confident without arrogance, a sense of amusement that excludes hurting others for entertainment, heathy lifestyle, open minded, forever learning... all these attributes combined make somebody attractive for me. The beauty of a man being kind to someone just because they can
Having said all that... I have to admit that I find a total turn off as a mate the idea of a man who doesn't care for himself for instance rubbish diet, no excercise, too much booze with its consequences ... to me that is unattractive...
That book was written by a guy to explain to women why they are so crap at relationships and how it's because women just don't understand them . I wouldn't actually believe a word that's in it
I think you could be right for many men it is that way... I get messages from guys 'who like my photos' but it's obvious they didn't read my profile. Yet they think that because they like my looks that's enough to start a conversation. Even when we have nothing in common
Golden silence? Did yoy feel connected to him beyond the physical? Or was it a seperate unique experience you were able to have because he was there to keep you safe?
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RE: In Four Words
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