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RE: How would you define a good woman?

Freud had a very similar theory about womb envy for men who allegedly could not bear the idea of not being able to bear children

RE: How would you define a good woman?

Nothing like a bunch of men to tell women what they think, how they feel, what they should or shouldn't do or why (coz a man knows), why they do the things they do etc. etc.

I think some men have womb envy and cannot stand that there are things women can and will do that they won't ever ever be able to equate.

Like the most important thing to the survival of mankind: give life
Aren't women simply amazing?

RE: Men and women

I didn't think I was 'using' anything to make an argument. I was simply pointing out that society is 'setting up' both men and women to misunderstand one another because both are playing roles instead of being transparent about who they are and what they would like. I wasn't thinking of is as a competition od whi has it worse but rather a starting point for conversation where both men and women can know what the other is experiencing in this society.

Possibly the technical evolution makes it easier to hide and not process and deal wirh our emotions!

Happy Holidays back to you

RE: Men and women

I was meaning people who had connected with their creative and wilder self were less likely to care about what other people wear ...

Some people don't do fashion but have a natural sense of style or elegance. It's not just what they wear it's 'them' wearing it ....

RE: Wins a lady heart?

So many stereotypes!

RE: Wins a lady heart?

None of the above seperately or put together unless he is also in touch with his feelings and able to process and heal

RE: Men and women

Somebody who still needs to work on their wild creative self ? may be .....

RE: Men and women

Imagine a middle aged man with 'middle aged spread' in skinny jeans!
I think that's what it's meant to mean...
Question is who decides what is appropriate and according to what criteria?

RE: Could it ever be possible for Everyone to get along on CS?

Sorry hadn't read you last post when I made mine

RE: Could it ever be possible for Everyone to get along on CS?

No!

But it would be possible to refrain from insulting!
And it would be possible to agree to disagree!

And it would be possible to accept not everyone is going to like you...

RE: I just got the latest Family Dollar store circular

I will never again feel hard done by because when I was a child we ate just boiled potatoes a bit too often.

Ooby thanks for sharing your poignant memories

RE: Divorced wife

Are you sure you weren't a bit hasty? May be she was just trying to introduce a bit of variety in your life you know!? If you'd given her new cooking a chance you might have been surprised how exciting such a wild creative change could have brought to your life!
Next time you might even considered asking her instead of telling her or you might have even considered cooking together...imagine the excitment in the kitchen working out together whether to prepare beans and rice or rice and beans

RE: Its Over

My sincere condoleances Track

RE: Something I Had To Learn The Hard Way

RE: Do you enjoy being a closet boyfriend or girlfriend ?

You mean like a skeleton but less embarrassing so you actually 'let him/her out' every now and then?

RE: How would you define a good woman?

RE: How would you define a good woman?

If all a man wants from me is for me to be lovable, a good cook, kind, thrifty, give him his space and a willingness to warm up his bed, I have a splendid idea!
Move back in with his morher and since it's nearly Christmas, ask for a couple of hotwater bottles to warm.up his bed with....
All his wishes are fulfilled and I can continue to do whatever I want!
It's a win win situation!

RE: How would you define a good woman?

So answer me this! When you need to sit down (like once or twice a day) after you've finished, do you put the toilet seat back up ready for when you need it up? Well! Do you?

RE: The voice of God...............???

RE: How would you define a good soul...?

I get what you mean about the shape of the pineal gland and 3rd eye ...

RE: How would you define a good soul...?

'Real' mediums are aware of 'life after death' and/or some sort of universal consciousness that allows 'tapping into' the energy of a person passed away and communicate information impossible to invent
..

RE: How would you define a good soul...?

Not sure soul and religion are a good mix....

RE: How would you define a good soul...?

How can we be certain of all those things? That's information shared by humans ... from the limited knowledge they have ...
Ahhh and the 3rd eye is not the same as the pineal gland Pedro..

I read today that some scientists have discovered that there are multiple dimensions within the brain... beyond 2D and 3D that sounds super exciting!
Anyone who read my profile when I joined might remember I desctibed myself as a multidimensional being! that discovery helps me feel a little less weird

RE: How would you define a good soul...?

Each from the limitations of their perception of what a soul is ... there is no absolute definition

RE: These notes left for milkmen came from the UK, so you'll notice a slight endearing British ambiance

reminds of life in rural England when I first lived there in the early 80's

RE: Is honesty always the best policy?

You're right everything ends up where it should be...
I suppose the difference is do we experience it as 'pushing water uphill' or as 'flowing effortlessly'

RE: Mindfulness

RE: Is honesty always the best policy?

I don't know if awareness is something we can actively seek... if we are seeking it we are already getting in the way of it happening ...

We're human so duality is not something we can totally get away from... or at least I can't... being 'in absolute presence' while organising an exhibition is not something I've 'mastered'
But I'm aware there's a place of no fear and no anxiety where whatever happens flows and everthing ends up being as it should be if you don't try to interfeer with 'mind control tactics'... in this place you are in the presence of duality and aware of it but not feeling threated by it..
It's a good place to be

RE: How would you define a good man?

RE: How would you define a good man?

Perfect mirror for your Devine Feminine