Life is hard, for the most part, in various ways. And so are many of the things included in life, such as love, for example.
I don't feel that it should be such a hard job to keep the love between two people because, if the love is true, it will flow naturally.
Still, relationships do take a degree of work and/or effort, but again, if the love is there and it is true, you shouldn't have to work hard to keep it. You will, however, have to put forth certain efforts to maintain it, overall - of course - that is a given.
Nah...I'm not spoiled at all... Wish I was sometimes - even if only once in a great while - that would be nice. Alas, the breakfast served to me in bed by a cabana guy was simply wishful thinking...
I actually do, like you, have to do it myself...and I agree with you...it is not quite the same, no. Not even anywhere close!
Where are the men (cabana guys) to do this for us, love? To spoil us lovingly, just because?? Where?!?!?!
Breakfast as soon as I wake up? Nope. Gotta have coffee first & foremost. After a couple of cups, I like breakfast...especially served to me in bed by my cabana guy...
I guess you could say that I've had some "luck"...I've had a suitor, or two...no plans for marriage thus far, though. You know how it goes - gotta just let things happen as they may.
Thanks for asking, & I'm really happy for you and your special lady! I wish the both of you a lifetime of love & happiness, always!!!
RE: Should love be hard
Life is hard, for the most part, in various ways. And so are many of the things included in life, such as love, for example.I don't feel that it should be such a hard job to keep the love between two people because, if the love is true, it will flow naturally.
Still, relationships do take a degree of work and/or effort, but again, if the love is there and it is true, you shouldn't have to work hard to keep it. You will, however, have to put forth certain efforts to maintain it, overall - of course - that is a given.