The attitude of ownership over you, she picks up after the I do. You have to conform to her expectations and she does what ever she wants. This is from my experiences.
I don't make promises that I don't intend to keep. But I think if you make a promise, but find out later that it could hurt somebody else. I would not keep it.
You bring up a good point Pike. If both people accept that type of lifestyle, Why not. I personally don't understand it, but if that life style makes them happy in life, go for it.
Btw how far along, Are you on the wagon? Good to see you again.
I guess maybe for some people. But I couldn't have or would want multiple partners. And I have to agree with someone who posted earlier. Why get married?
I was in this situation for a short period of 2 months. I used to work in the manufacturing sector and got laid-off. Along with looking for a job, I kept the housework up and cooked dinner 4 nights a week. And believe me they were very simple meals. but squared.
I did feel for lack of a better word "useless". I felt guilty I was bringing no money in to the house. I couldn't wait to get back to work. I finally said the hell with manufacturing, and was able to get my foot in the door at a local hospital.
I hear you; I believe I have met the wrong women. I am 36 and I don't get the teens today. I am not judging any age group but I was raised with a strong work ethic. I have to and had to work hard for everything I have. It just seems, at least in my area the teens feel no sense of responsibility. It's always what can you give me for as little work I need to perform. Although I have met some very responsible young people, that hold there own.
If a man feels threatened by your intelligence, He is not the man for you. In my opinion. You cannot stop that. Be yourself. If he truly loves you, He will not feel threatened by you. He has his own strengths, Learning from each other is what a relationship is about. He picks you up on your weaknesses and you pick him on his.
RE: Testing potentials
I was never good at taking test.