I could never go through pregnancy and child birth, it would never happen. I have my reasons and I know it sounds bizarre for a woman my age but alas, thats life. However I like the idea of dating men/women with children because I know I will never have any of my own. This doesn't mean I'm some psycho that is going to try and play second mummy! But I think the joy of having children in your life is something I don't want to miss out on. So no, dating men/women with kids has never been and will never be an issue, I think anyone who discounts, disgards and pushes aside the idea of dating someone with children is depriving themselves of something wonderful. Just my view...
I met someone off here once who turned out to be married, it was such a bizarre situation. I'm just glad I didn't like him that much or the upset later for me would have been seriously crappy. The poor wives though! Most are probably completely in the dark. And theres only one thing worse than cheating and thats treating your partner like a fool.
I was so convinced no one read the profile that I put weird stuff in it just to see if they mention it when they mail! I can honestly say out of every 10 mails... maybe 2 mention the dyslexic badgers or the midgets....
Sucks don't it? I can't really have friends over here at the moment and I don't feel like trekking to my friends houses in this weather urgh! I wonder if there is anything funny on TV...?
OOh and hey... I applied for jobs in Dublin today (:
Anyone else in this boat too? Why am I always in it? Is it because I live in a tiny town in North Wales where literally nothing happens and there is nothing to do?
I mean nothing... Infact when the BBC news were running the story on the massive riots, the north wales section GENUINELY ran a piece about someone stealing a tractor!.... And it was big news!
I'm usually a chatterbox on the forums but this new layout and me are having a dit of a disagreement... Sure I'll come round to it and start posting more soon enough!
I don't have any children myself, but as someone who could be in a position where I was being introduced to my dates kids.. I'd be very very nervous! I suppose sooner may be better? For the kids too I guess? If they are old enough to underdstand your dating then they may feel left out of the loop if your seeing someone for half a year without them knowing?
RE: KIDS/NO KIDS
I could never go through pregnancy and child birth, it would never happen. I have my reasons and I know it sounds bizarre for a woman my age but alas, thats life. However I like the idea of dating men/women with children because I know I will never have any of my own. This doesn't mean I'm some psycho that is going to try and play second mummy! But I think the joy of having children in your life is something I don't want to miss out on. So no, dating men/women with kids has never been and will never be an issue, I think anyone who discounts, disgards and pushes aside the idea of dating someone with children is depriving themselves of something wonderful. Just my view...