Totally understandable that you wouldn't move because of your daughter, and that makes you a really good mummy in my opinion!
I think time is key from what I gather. You need to know someone a while before any idea of moving, it's too risky maybe otherwise.
An ex of mine moved from County down to Wales a few years back. But he wanted to move for himself as well as me. And he now has a great job and a lovely home and has done well for himself even though we aren't together. He got lucky :) It was so scary at the time, but luckily it worked out. I don't think I would have ever forgiven myself if it had gone awry!
OOoooo No no sweetheart Theres no one yet hehe. Just wondering seeing as this is a dating site and there are people from all parts of Ireland and the UK talking surely this must be an issue (or non-issue!) at some point.
Not a personal question for myself... no one loves me that much yet
I kinda thought that too. But, then I began to think maybe I would be cutting off options for myself if I didn't entertain the idea a little. But it's a difficult one and I think alot of the answers would entirely depend on the unique situation
Good woman! Thanks for your view, I think it's really healthy that your open to the idea. I think it is a rel hazard with internet dating. YES it gives you the freedom and chances to meet people you would never normally come into contact with, but equally it brings up the issue of distance.
Ok, so... This is a potential situation some of you may have found yourself in, or indeed may do in the future if you do meet someone online.... And I would really like to hear (read!) your opinions or experiences.
So, you have met someone you are crazy about. You have been meeting and socialising regularly, you can't fault the person and they make your life that little brighter and you think you really want to give this chance all you got!
HOWEVER...
They live a little too far away for comfort, just that bit too far so that you don't get to see them as much as you would like. But you really feel a connection and you want to explore this opportunity...
BUT THERES A TWIST!
The person in question would move to be with you. They are willing to up sticks and move to your city/area/country!
So, my real questions are:
Would you feel comfortable with this?
Would you have any reservations?
What level would your relationship be at before you consider letting them move?
How would you help them settle in, how far would you go to help?
Is even thinking about dating someone not in your immediate area a no no?
Thanks for reading my eassay, looking forward to peoples views!
The 8 o'clock rule...
In the AFTERNOON?! Thought I was bold haha.How many times a week do you drink?