There is lots missing in my life...been that way for quite some time now. But, I'd rather focus on what's not missing, as it's healthier for my overall outlook.
There are many, many ways on how I'd make this determination...but mostly, my intuition tells me much...& I listen to it. In general, though, I prefer to be the one being pursued.
I make up my own mind, for the most part. No, I don't need another to help me make up my mind...although, I do have respect for others opinions & advice. I'm a pretty decisive person overall.
I don't feel that having a pet(s) would enable me to remain single. If a future or potential partner can’t handle/understand the unconditional love that my pets and I have for each other, then that would tell me that they don’t have unconditional love and/or understanding of me...the person I am. I wouldn’t say that having pets would have anything to do with a “higher standard”, simply because I love them & vice-versa. However, my fur-kids and I are a package deal. Take it, or leave it.
RE: where's your hand