I received an email from the owners of a site on which I am no longer a member, in fact was member for shortest time. Only had been curious so of-course had to pay to enter. A weird site where all the men HAVE to specify their annual income PLUS their net worth, and they need to be 'a millionaire' or 'gazillionaire'. Turns out my profile is still there and I was notified that the person below has sent me an email.
Now it is quite obvious what this fellow is after. Probably married, too. What would you do? Would you be curious as to what he has written in the email he has sent?(it is there, flashing, but I can't open it). Or should I delete it.
Here is his profile:
"Describing Myself: I am seeking a friendly, fun and caring long term lover. Managing a large business is stressful and I want someone to relax with and spoil. I love travelling, dining out, golf, movies/theatre, good wine and theatre. I am a genuine nice guy who my friends and staff adore, VERY generous and not very demanding. My job has very flexible hours so I can play day or night. I live in Melbourne but prefer a regular long term lover in Adelaide as I am working there from Tuesday to Friday indefinitely. As my profile says I seek a fun and passionate lover and a great friend, hopefully on a long term basis. Because of my senior position I will not put up a photo for everyone to see but very happy to send one immediately to anyone interested Go on take a chance, dare you. "
Oh,the site tells me he has placed me on his 'Hot List'
Say no more. Not unless you have met and know this 'far away ' family well. And even then, it doesn't seem you have known each other long. It is his family. His problem.
Somehow, I think you have probably sized up the situation already and know what to do.
I met a quantum physicist last year, and one of the many conversations where he completely baffled me, was when he would say that our future has already happened. And stuff about 'transmutation'
Anyway, I am reading a book based on principles of quantum physics called "Quantum Success" by Sandra Anne Taylor. She deals in great detail about the processes involved in being able to manifest our dreams. Hence to create our future.
Ah, forgot about how cold it can get. I enjoyed Madrid from May to early Sept, with a week in Granada late Aug. Then Madrid again another time in April, when it was very warm.
Shorts? Well, at least you packed light
Hope it stays sunny hot for the remainder of your stay.
A few days ago, I was away for work, at a coastal town. After dinner, I stepped across to the jetty and it was close to sunset. There was beauty all around.
Watching seagulls take off in 'sideways' flight, being lifted by the wind, and seeing them swoop across the water and catch their prize. The water rippling to the shore. Then the sun sinking into the horizon and taking its deep blood orange colour with it. I couldn't stop smiling, and breathing in those moments of pure bliss.
That is not surprising for one party or other to behave that way.
Be guided by the law, however. Why give your hard earned money away just because he wants it but may not be entitled to it? If you want to invest and you do not owe him anything, then go ahead and invest. But make it generate income for you, not simply capital growth over time. You can put that money into the children's trust account for their education/other savings plan for you or the children.
If you think that buying him off will get rid of him, think again. If he that way inclined, he will try all kinds of ways to make your life hell. Next it might be through the children, their education, whatever. But there WILL be other ways, be assured of that.
In general principle I agree with you mickey. And I always show nothing but respect on the forums.
However, I was recently hounded by an "Aussie" "male" CS'er publicly on the foruns. So I did what I have never done before, and hope to never do again.
Publicly comment on his appalling behaviour and needed several posts to do that.
He had been unnecessarily offensive on one thread, then following me to the EU forums straight after and being really 'nice'.
Perhaps "he" had forgotten what persona he was when shifting form IF to EU?
May I say I have never been so incensed in all my time on CS. The "man" is a flippin' lunatic, whatever, he, she it is.
"Seeking long teerm lover" - some guy's profile
Yep, think so