Kentucky, atop a mountain looking down on the world below, and wondering where to go from here.............
Maybe having that first special candlelit dinner with a special man while looking at the moonlit night and at the stars which shine like diamonds in the sky.
I had someone one time tell me that I wasn't normal I resonded back to them that I wouldn't want to be totally normal ,cause then I'd be like everybody else.
This is from my prospective on this whole dating/or not to date thing. What should I do if I met a guy for the first time and haven't really communicated either through the forums nor emails on this site and if I don't question him about certain things but I agree to meet him in person anyway and he turns out to be a complete jerk.
Wouldn't I'd been smarter to spend sometime observing him in the forums first on how he interacts with other people and spend some time corresponding with him afew times by phone or mails first.Or just leap into the dating scene?
I wish I knew the answer to why either one does it Bettis, I really do.
I think sometimes when someone hurts us in a relationship/ friendship we lash out and blame someone else for what happened. It's totally unfair to the new person we meet/bring into our lives but this does happen.
That's mainly one of the reasons why I'm scared to death to enter into another relationship with someone new.
somechick Forum Posts (11,116)
RE: Dating vs getting to know someone first?
Oh ok don't change.