COULD IT BE COS THEY´RE IN LOVE!!!!! Have you never experienced the pleasure of just being in the company of someone you love.............no need for conversation.
NO WAY.............my way of life would cease to exist. You can only afford that luxury if you live in a large town or city where public transport is available, or you don´t have a full schedule to your day.
Okay, so let's say you meet someone from another country and you don't speak their language and their command of yours is mediocre. What do you do? Will you continue and hope they learn more of your language? Will you learn theirs? Will you continue with the relationship even though there are limits to how much and what you can talk about?I ask because my girlfriend was married to a man from another country. They lived in her country. In 10 years, he didn't learn anything beyond what he knew when they met and that wasn't much. (I know the guy and he speaks and understands very little). Ergo, he never got a decent job and their communication was tedious. In the end, they divorced because of several issues.
If you move to another country with a different language then it is to your own benefit to try and learn that language. However, that is not always possible, either because the person does not apply themselves, or does not have the capabality. The country I live in is a perfect example.........many foreigners have made it their home, but do not have the grasp of the language. However, that does not deter them from having a good life, as there are translators to be found, when the need for medical assistance, financial matters or judicial, arises. BODY LANGUAGE is something that is very important and often says much more than words can ever do, especially in a romantic situation. Also, I would say that most of the conversations I have with loved ones, revolve around their well-being and day to day living, or brief discussions on news items. The lengthy discussions on "important" (tongue in cheek) topics are kept for the forums in our lives.
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Leonard Rossiter.................Rising dampFrances de la Tour was brilliant as well.