Hmm..i get what you are saying now.. The Spirit of Gandhi !!
The Mahatma believed in seeing the good before the bad , looking for the cause before the hate , understanding before despising and the greater good over self gain.
So.. I dont much like a few of my relatives but the good thing in them is they still know how to love their family placing it before material gains.
I despise a teacher for having made me go thro' hell without understanding the reason, but the good thing about him is he's very knowledgeable and this episode made me realise " everyone doesnt have to like you "
Dear Fireliter ... I am a little touchy on the subject .. so am attempting to say this.. it is GANDHI !!
RE: name something good you want to do to the one above.
send her a big goody bag ... feeling too generous and shes real sweet !!