Squirly ... its terrible and wont be easy on you for a while ... the feeling of having been there and unable to do anything is real bad .... but sometimes u cant help at all ... try to get your head of the accident .. think of the woman and say a prayer in your mind for her peace !!!!!!
then try to get some sleep.. take a pill ( anxiety relieving ) it will help .
If i like this guy and i better be sure i want to see if i can make it long term with him ......as of now, i would stick up for him ... as this is the worst that could happen to anyone. I would be there for him and help him work things out.
If this was a friend i started liking , i would be there for him anyways.
I guess its too soon a conclusion drawn usually. When u like someone and want to go out .. its still like in the initial stages where there r better things to bother about than his finances.
I wouldnt go out with someone who is broke cos of vices or something. But definitely if someone's having a crunch he could have genuine concerns... so judging too soon wont be my idea.
If i like realllyyy like him.. i wouldnt let this bother too much.. Will talk and discuss ... but will do this someother time.
Right now when its the dinner issue ... i would call him over and we could cook together !!! After all its about meeting and dining. Wouldnt want to make him feel awkward .. if he would .. if i were to pay.
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