Ohh yes... its fine till women dont get into nasty mode.. but when they do.. the can be worse than the male counterparts. I am quick tempered but still manage to see reason and cool down faster than i got angry .. so its no big deal. Takes a big effort for someone to drive me up the wall..
I ts houldnt bother you as they are the ones missing out. I have seen hurt makes people recoil in to a shell and they are very scared or very cautious in what they will do to avoid preating the mistake.
Sometimes while being careful we dont realise if someone just passed by and was trying to reach out to us.
Life palys its games on everyone .. different ways , different times.
Its easy for us to sit behind a computer screen and contemplate while the truth where the shoe bites is best known to the one who wears it.
Addiction is by far a problem too complex to simplify in to i hate or i like or even right or wrong. Its nnot about controlling your own mind with everyone. Some are vulnerable for genetic reasons some for other reasons . No point seeing the problem. Its important to work back to the root.
Begging is too,a similar issue. Genuinity is often lost too deep. So when you help someone it could be for his gain or yours as you feel better and thank god for being blessed in to a good life.
As someone rightly pointed out , its the way you help that matters. The needy man whom BEB's children helped sounded genuine as he wanted to work. There sure are people like that but the scheming ones make them look small.
So to act wisely with a kind heart goes a long way , i feel !!
Its really a bad scene the way the worlds going. I have heard stories here of children being abducted and being made handicap to make them a part of the begging circuit. Alot of families , poor people do it day in and day out as business.
One lady annoyed me so much , i told her i shall take you to the police and she said oh ya, try it out... we shall see about that one.
Genuinely needy people do exist , but having a birds eye view over the existing situation , helping them find work or offering pay for work or even nothing would be a little cruel at times but worth it , as it might prevent the bigger nexus from hatching more plots.
I hate !!
ohh yes !!!