A little chubby doesent bother me a bit. lets face it I coud do to loose a few pounds myself, Im talking about the ones who are 150 pounds over weight, I like some of these ladies as they are wounderfull people bit I am just not attracted to them.
I too am a single father, Iv been doing it for 8 years, I also believe in being involved with the kids and there interests, That is why I have coacked T-ball, been soccer mom, a girl scout leader and now a scout master for the boy scout troop. I have great kids and I believe that is because I never gave up on them.
you are right I am being picky but I have setteled for less than I wanted twice before and twice I got burned big time. I guess I just dont want to settle again, On the other hand maybe that is why Im not getting many dates.
It seems most people agree, momey is the motive. My Ex was fine staying with me untill my bank accout was empty and the credit cards where all maxed out, Then she started cheeting and moved out to be with another guy who had more mone than I did,
I still fantisize about winning the lottery and seeing how fast she wants to come back to me, and my response would be
Ok let me add something to the mix. I am also totaly turned off by a blond haired blue eyed babie doll who spends 3 hours butting oh makup and thinks they are queens that the world should surve. and they turn me off no matter what they weigh.
Im in the same boat as you. I almost met one lady a few weeks ago, e-mails seemed to be going good then I mentions my step dauter and she instantly assumed I was maried and was lying in my profile, she never considered the possibility that my EX wife had kids that I raised as my own and that I have in fact been devorced for 8 years.
one of my hobbies is to grow dhalias, with them the more you cut the blomes the more they produce, I give flowers all the time, One time I was giving out flowers to all the ladies in the nursing home when one of the 90 yo demincia patients looked at the flowers, laughed and blushed, and said to me, " I would love one but I better not, people might talk"
I work in rehab and many of the clients refer to there paralized parts as a bad leg or a bad arm but we in the industry are tqught to use the turm affected side not bad side, then I thought, humm, does that mean the kids are not bad kids just affected kids, how many other plays on words can result in a humorous conclusion.
Hi juneau, I have always been attracted to the scotish and irish cultures, I am over half irish and listening to the celtic women make my heart sing, (( I dont mind looking at them ether,))
Thanks I didnt do it alone though, If there was ever a time in my life that God came threw for me It was during that time. I am not a bible thumping religious fenatic but He was deafinately there for me.
if you dont mind though I would like to share e-mails threw sc, there is no harm in haveing a friend and you know im safe, 3,000 miles is a pretty good safty net, it seems we have simmilar interests though.
yes the distance seems to be a problem. I have chatted with a few relly great ladies but the distance made it imposible to get together, just like you and me, We might hit is off great but you are on one coast and me on the other. It is still fun to chatt but not lickely anything else would ever happen.
I agree it takes time to develop but I have found some ladie wont let it go for any amount of time, We will E-mail for a few weeks and suddenly bam it is cut off, sometimes with no explanation.
ya I understand but it does make it difficult to those of us guys who are honest and sinsear. I never really know just how fast or slow to move. sometimes it seems like if I do nothing I get nothing but if i make an effort them Im labled and scare them off and I would really like to make a connection with someone special and have a quality relationship.
ya i agree. but he seems to play that simpithy card very well. several of the ladie say that is why they go out with him is they feel sorry for him. I guess I am just not short enough and too responsible.
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lol Im only 33, well if you start counting bacwards from 40