I like a lady who can take the lead at times and lay back and let me have my way at times. Give and take, Go with the flow as the mood strikes at the time. Equal partners both in bed and out. That is what I want.
I admit there are lots of scamers and CS has not done anything for my dating but I do like the forums and have made some internet friends here so i will stick it out and stay with the forums.
I marked 3 because I had several good things happen but the one thing that would have made it great is to share it with a special lady but that lady I wanted to shair all the good stuff with only wanted to be just friends
Actualy that is not true, I do get mais from ladies I have met in the forums and that is great but they are all too far away to date. I love having internet friends though.
Lots of interesting responses from the ladies however I have done all of what you sugest and I still get 0 responses. I can spend hours composing wounderfull mesages that include the things in there profils I like and interests I have, and so far in over a year on CS I have had 0 responses.
Ya well I had no coments, no slaps, no explanations, just one day we are chatting and getting along quite will and the next day I try to answer her last mesage and Im blocked. I have no idea why.
A year an a half on CS. so far chat friends, 15, dates,,0. It seems every lady I have attempted to meet in person has suddenly dissapeard or stoped chatting and one blocked me after I wanted to treat her to lunch.
I do admit though that right now I am feeling a bit frustrated as there is a lady out there whom I have great interest in and have genuine feelings for but she is stuck chasing after a guy who does not treet her very well. It is very frustrating, I could really make a real differance in her life and I know she could make a differance in mine. Both of our lives would be better together but she wont give it a chance. That could have some affect on how Im feeling right now.
No I dont think all available women are wrecks ro users, just the ones who take on interest in me. I have met several great ladys whom have there lives together quite well and those are the ones who just want to be friends.
no it is not trying to avoid getting hurt or rejucted, I have gotten quite use to that. Most girls I take an interest in think I am a great guy and would make a great partner,,,, for someone else. I am on 3 dating sights, I am involved in a singles club and go out often but still everyone wants to be just friends. The only ladies who seem to want to have a relationship are the ones whos lives read like csi and they need someone to rescue them. I am done being the kinght in shining armor, and being used and taken advantage of. I would love to haveone lady who has her life together and doesent need to be rescued want to be more than just friends..
Its 7 pm and Im watching true lies on Tv as I wate for the laundry to finish up. How is that for multi tasking, Im chatting on the computer, watching tv, doing laundry, and this is an easy night because the kids are at there moms
I personaly am quite confident in whou I am, I am great at my job and make a real differance, I give of myself to the community and make a differance in the lives of many kids, I am a great father and my kids are the best they can be do to my guidence, I have a tromendous gift to give a loving partner however there seems to be a lack of ladies wanting to give me a chance. The most confident man in the world will stll be alone if not one lady will get to know him.
Yes I totaly agree with you. that is why I setteled for my Ex when I did and my ex girlfriend. both total disasters but they where the only girls willing to take any kind of interest because they knew I was a succker and they could use me. I have learned and am not going down that road again so I will probably be alone for the rest of my life because I still tend to be a nice guy and girls just want to be friends. Frustrating but noting I can do about it.
you are right, I use to be the rescuer type but I have changed. I currently have two ladies after me and I have told them that when there divorce is final and they are setteld let me know but I am not being a part of there issues again. I have had enough of that. those are not the ladis Im talking about though when I say the ones I have been truely attracted to.
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RE: how many of you are considering leaving cs?
Im right there too, It does go both ways.