i guess i didnt really notice tyhis particular example but sadly people are screwed up and lots are 'afraid' to hurt someones feelings
me-the thing thats been hardest to accept about myself? i am not psychic
i dunno what the other person is thinking and its not the same for every person/situation anyway so we cannot say oh these people are like this-the ones that do 'X' because people have too much history and so too many variables and personally i dont want to have only 3 or 4 kinds of people as possible mates-how would i choose? i prolly wouldnt want any of those-
sometimes people feel fat sometimes we move at a different speed than another and have no skills to have a conversation about it
tons of possible reasons
very few people in my life have the weight that i would take their remarks personally i know who i am, and so do these friends the new virtual people dont-and so im ok w/ rejection usually unless im having a ensitive day-but my response is still my responsibility
i think im not responsible if someones feelings are whatever they are after a few emails
good grief how much time do we have to be online
and i have heard from both genders that often if one is polite, courteous and rather short the other wont let go or sometimes if you continue being polite and neighborly later they want to believe there is more between you than really is
i think its a case bt case basis thing-no overall policy
but i do hope there are some healthy men that arent 'hurt' when every gal doesnt answe every email
i mean its an odds game-you cast your net and a few stay and maybe one is the one, someday
i think people get a little too sensitive and out of proportion with their feelings and responses in the beginning of a poooossible correspondence relationship
i also think many of these same people are that way in R/L and that its scary or uncomfortable for those they approach
get some boundaries already they are not mean they are healthy
(that wasnt directed at anyone- its just a manner of speech)
i read the thread title and fireliter's comment only
ive done some inventory on me
i would say i am too comfortable but screw it if a fit came long it would work im just so happy, fulfilled and comfortable- i dunno-99% of the time it doesnt seem to matter much at all
not true pooh what she'll do for a few pound or a pizza coupon is legend
((the best part is the new girls slobbering over him there is something to be said for not being new... when i was new -whoops-never came back for 5 months cuz i got busy-and then dumped))
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it is possible sometimes to share in a general way i did that recently--after a meeting only it was discreet i think since no one really knew who it was it helped me reach a number of people at once as i was 'on the road' and couldnt write to each friends who was waiting to hear the outcome...
not meaning to be rude (not that thatll be believed-so what) but i seem to remember arlene your apology said you were drunk at the time and regretful of it thats a fine apology in my book
i mentioned your name in passing it was not demeaning and i dont backpeddle or hide behind a bush or try to play anything down
the only vicious emails have been from you or you and the angels-*ahem* some of which have come my way *accidentally* and were really quite shocking and hurtful
the emails i sent you were sad and trusting and then trying to make a boundary begging you to let my heartbreak be my own asking you not to post about it your response was that you had to it was your right and he deserved it
youve been posting about that guy and me months after he's been gone
i just dont get it
this is cleansed?
and mebeing anything like bnd?
i was here b4 him, im here now ill be here later who cares only me and thats enuf *pats self on back*
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RE: Listen
i was making a jokebecause you guys were directing to another site...
so i thot i was being amusing
better to mention and artist and suggest a look
as availability is easy online?