Yep yep and yep! I met someone here over a year ago, and we are still going strong! I did go thru a lot of emails and even conversations with guys here. And while none of them were bad, they just wern't for me and I was not for them. Just as I was about to throw in the towel thinking maybe I really didn't want anyone. I got a box a chocholates telling me to eat it so he could catch me. Well I had to see this over whelming romantic, It has been great ever since. Turns out he is very much a romantic and everything else I personally would want in any man. Men complain a lot that we women try to change them, I would fight anyone who tried to change this guy.
I'm a lover not a fighter when I drink, and really for me everything seems funny when I'm drinking so I guess I wouldn't cut anyone with my words. That is if they could even read what I write.
Truth is as far as I go, It is a combonation, of what the media today puts out to the public, and to look good for the man in my life. I was never fat a day in my life, (not to say I wont ever be,who knows) But I have never been a size 0 either. But that is whats put into the mediea. This is what the men see and like. So I try to compete with the media best I can and within reason. I want my guy to like looking at me, and I want him to be proud to be with me. I don't want him thinking that others look skinny or have bigger or better brests, so why do I have this? Maybe if the models and stars and all in the publics eye looked more like an average women, Then the average women might not think they have to compete so much. But I still feel there is nothing wrong in taking pride and trying to make your self the best you can be. But there is a line as when it's to much. You also have to allow someone want you for you too. As far as breaking it off with the girl, I guess I would have to ask, did you make comments about someone else that could have made her inferrior? Or Did she do it to flaunt it for others to admire?
Truth is as far as I go, It is a combonation, of what the media today puts out to the public, and to look good for the man in my life. I was never fat a day in my life, (not to say I wont ever be,who knows) But I have never been a size 0 either. But that is whats put into the mediea. This is what the men see and like. So I try to compete with the media best I can and within reason. I want my guy to like looking at me, and I want him to be proud to be with me. I don't want him thinking that others look skinny or have bigger or better brests, so why do I have this? Maybe if the models and stars and all in the publics eye looked more like an average women, Then the average women might not think they have to compete so much. But I still feel there is nothing wrong in taking pride and trying to make your self the best you can be. But there is a line as when it's to much. You also have to allow someone want you for you too. As far as breaking it off with the girl, I guess I would have to ask, did you make comments about someone else that could have made her inferrior? Or Did she do it to flaunt it for others to admire?
Hey Healthy! I am happy to be back. I was just reading your post and it dawned on me, You were my first friend here on CS. Your a tru kindred spirit. Love you too
We all have our own opinions, and we all lead our lives the best we can for our selves. each to there own. Friends are good to have no one should let someone elses opinion keep them from being friends Have a great evening.
I also know there are a lot of people who believe there has to be a physical atraction. And one can not have that with out meeting in person. It is my belief that atraction comes from love. it is one way we express love. Anyone who has to have atration first before love, how do know that it really is love and not lust. If you love first, at least for me then I know it is love.
Truth is it can and does happen. It has happend with me. but when you talk to someone every night for more then a year you really get to know that person. you get to know who and what they really are. I have also met many in person, and found after a few months there not what I may have thought at first either. there is no difference in learning who someone is thru computer/phone then in person. and for some it is easier that way, some can be more them selves with out the pressures of wanting to make an impression. All I know is I met someone here on CS, and after a year I would not give him up for anything.
Nice to meet you. I hope you enjoy CS as much as I have. I met a lot of nice people here and made some really great friends. I am even on the phone now with one.
Nice to meet you. I hope you enjoy CS as much as I have. I met a lot of nice people here and made some really great friends. I am even on the phone now with one.
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Hey hugs good to see you!
RE: Who Is A Real Man?
A real man is many things. A real man would not have to ask what a real man is.