It's just like going out to a bar. How many creeps try to pick you up? Same thing here, except here we can block them out, yeah! Wish I could do that in person. Just hit a button and poof they are gone.
You don't personally attract these kinds of guys. These guys to do it to every woman. It is not you, it is them. Yes it gets old, but take them with a grain of salt, block them, ignore them, and have fun chatting with who you want to.
People like the forums because it's like meeting in a public place. It gives them the opportunity to find out about someone. I personally want to be friends first. That is the beginning for me. Just like Kansas said, he and his lady found common ground in a thread and it was the beginning of a beautiful relationship. Very few people want to start with private emails and IMing. If someone on here interests you, join in on a forum with them, find out what they are like. And good luck.
Why not try your local church. Most have classes for their singles and get togethers and if you like the church, not only will you have the opportunity to meet nice women, but you could volunteer too.
I have been trying to get men to do that for years. I like things to progress naturally and I hate when every little thing that happens is made out to be an agenda.
If we click right away, go with it, there's no law that says you have to date for x amount of time before you know you like him or have to wait x days to call. I am so sick of that attitude. We know pretty quickly if romance is in the air, go with it... If I were 18 and didn't know what I wanted and needed, then I would take my time and make sure, but I'm not and neither are the men I'm interested in.
I've met and dated several gentlemen from dating sites, most locally, one long distance. None have been my match so far, but I've still got my line in the water. Expectation is everything. I'm with Starlite, I go into wanting to have a good time and that is exactly what I do.
There are a million forums out there that have nothing to do with dating... Why are you on a dating site if you truly intended to get back together?
This wasn't a break, it was a fishing expedition for both of you. She just happened to land her's first. My guess is you are angry because she found someone before you did.
And since you decided to make it public knowledge by posting in forums, I highly doubt you will get any bites here now, so you might as well just be looking for friends.
Hi Blue. Resting after a long weekend camping & hiking. Nice to have a descent shower...LOL I'm not looking forward to work tomorrow. Would rather be back out in the woods.
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RE: what's it like when both people are in love?
Wanna find out?