I said exactly how i felt...My daughters husband does not include family members in their life,his family or my daughters,so i don't get to spend time with my grand kids who are 13 and 15 now,but i keep tabs on them with face book.It seems my son-in-law doesn't like his family very much,he doesn't approve of my lifestyle because i am not married or in a convent. As long as my daughter is happy,i have made peace with it,so please don't give me advice or tell me how i feel,when you don't no any thing about me.
I have a problem with that myself,i will do without some thing to help others ,especially family,i have done it all my life.now i try to help them and get what i need to,Now i tell them i can do this you have to help yourself to,but its tuff some times.I am not sure that we need to change that,its who we are!
I hate to agree with you,but internet dating is not a bed of roses,due to some people not being truthful and distance. One should not use internet dating as their only source to meet people.
You have a good heart,you try to see the good in people and give them a chance.Some people are just evil inside,want to hurt others,their unhappy want to make the rest of us unhappy,i distance myself from these people if possible.Its a lesson we usually learn the hard way.I used to think there was good in everybody,not sure i believe that any more.All we can do is try to be the best person we can be,look after our self first.
Only you can look at the world with positive eyes,you yourself can choose whether you want to be happy or sad.I choose to listen to the birds sing,to stop and smell the roses,Its a attitude...i choose not to look at the world as ugly and full of faults.....i see life and i love living it.
You really have to be careful when it comes to relationships on line.Make sure you chat on the phone,chat on skype or web cam.Get to know the person on more then just e-mail. For some reason people are not always truthful on line. They may say they don't drink or smoke when they do. There picture may be and old picture,people change as they get older,some still believe they look like they did 10 or 20 years ago,some air brush their photos to make them look better then they do in person. Some say they are average build when their not Things like this never make sense to me if there really trying to meet someone.Are they in a dream world,think we will over look the fact that they lied.That we will be so in love with them that it doesn't matter?The real world just doesn't work that way i am afraid. Last but the most important,you can't tell if there's chemistry or real attraction till you meet in person. Good luck
I think going from being a two some,to realizing its just me,myself and I now, can be a shock.We have all faced the loneliness,the numbness of feeling nothing,then with time we heal.We start to live again,to laugh,to cry,joining a dating site is just one step in finding the new you and the new me.We grow every day,taking that first step to each and every new adventure that each new day brings us.Welcome to life,its worth living don't you think!
i am afraid it happens all the time. We like them,they are not into us They like us we are not into them
I guess its just part of the dating process,we need to be interested enough in that person to want to be with them,but we don't want to feel trapped.We all need attention,to love and feel loved.We just have to fine someone who wants the same thing as us,who has the same interests. Nobody likes everyone so we will be rejected some times,the trick is to not take it personal.
RE: Just Wondering
you are just a kid yet, you have a lot of living to do.Enjoy life,you will be old before you know it.Have fun with your friends.I am not into 19 year old's,looking for some one my age who has the same interests and knowledge i have.
Good luck on your quest!