Ever though about doing some scenario analysis? Just drop it in a conversation (email, chat, whatever) an experience you had (or just make one up) and you can go based on their answer!
I know that some people have done it to me (some admitted outright to me before I even asked) and I got no problem with that! I have no problem with allowing the person to feel secure
What I want is: Someone that will support me! Someone that will laugh with me, cry with me, hurt with me, be with me! Someone that I can look to for help, that I can help!
In other words, a best friend, a soul mate!
I don't want someone that does my laundry, cooks, does my dishes, cleans the toilet! I'm doing that now MYSELF! And yes, I already have a mom!!!
In the end, I want someone that will be with me now and in future, that simple!
I personally don't want someone that needs me! I actually beleive that's its a negative if they need me! I would rather the person be with me since they want to be, not because they need to be!
RE: Happy B-day texastornado
Happy B-day D! Enjoy it and have fun!